Compliment a girl on what she wear not how she looks like and be unique!

ThrowawayPUA · 2015-11-28T16:14:31+00:00

I think you (only slightly) missed the point here.

Generally you should not give compliments to a woman about her looks. A beautiful woman knows she's beautiful. There is no point in complimenting her for winning the genetic lottery and being born beautiful. But you should compliment her on things she created by herself, like her fashion sense.

There is an old PUA saying, "Tell the hot girl she's smart, and the smart girl she's hot."

SuperiorSeduction · 2015-11-28T17:02:11+00:00

I'll probably be bashed in here, but you guys got it all wrong. I essentially bombard the most beautiful women with compliments about their looks and get them into bed oftentimes on the first date.

It's not about what you compliment, but how you do it.

If you feel worthy of her to begin with, regardless of her looks, you'll actually be very charming and, thus, very attractive.

It does not matter at all that she has heard it millions of times before, all that matters is from what mindset are you comming?

This is a big reason why many PUA's don't have the success they could've experience. Women absolutely adore it when you compliment them on their looks, and it is much more powerful than complimenting her accessories or clothing. Again, all you need to worry about is are you actually feeling worthy of her to begin with?

Compliment her very confidently, regardless of how she responds, and even if she says she doesn't like it; she does. Get rid of the idea that you yourself are not worthy enough for women and that you need to present yourself as someone you're not. Confidence, charm, responsibility. That's all you need to date hot models. No wealth, no style, no good looks, although you do need to take care of yourself obviously.

Edit: I've actually created a video on this.

Tibble_Buns · 2015-11-28T18:47:32+00:00

I disagree. I will compliment her on whatever inspires me in the moment. If it happens to be the two cute little freckles on each cheek or something she's wearing, then I'll compliment it.

The mindset of only complimenting a girl's effort is one more thought you have to think and could potentially turn into duplicity. I think it is much more important to be in the moment and vulnerable then to think so strategically all the time.

tanenbaum · 2015-11-28T22:35:54+00:00

I really think this depends on the girl and the context. If a girl is insecure the first time you meet her or you've known her for some time, it's perfectly fine, but I see no purpose in complimenting a highly attractive girl when you first meet her. She doesn't care what about her that you compliment, she knows she's attractive and you're just another cheap hint of validation. It's when she starts doubting that you're even into her that you're attractive. Why would you want to compliment somebody for attraction?

Rootbeer_Guy09 · 2015-11-29T16:38:11+00:00

Will field test this

2015-11-28T17:46:10+00:00

Here's a good one: compliment a girl on her makeup. Girls put a ton of effort into that shit, and for many it's their main hobby. I know this first hand because I also wear makeup but that's a different conversation.

Title	Compliment a girl on what she wear not how she looks like and be unique!
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Date	November 28, 2015 2:33 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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