What makes plates worth spinning?

mccdizzie · 2014-04-13T06:03:23+00:00

I'm very type A

any feeling of inferiority destroys me

HAHAHA. Holy fuck brother. Pick one. If you're type A full on Alfalfa sprout then step right up the the bench because you're in college and pussy is on sale, but if you're this weeble wobble dork too full up on his own ego (as your post history seems to suggest) then you're just pissed you can't get any because you're physically unimpressive and too proud to change. I know the feeling, I was like that in college before I figured out how much of a pillock I was, so let's just try to unfuck you posthaste, hmm?

Let me break down to you what you're saying:

--I want sex

--I'm too good for the girls at my school

--I'm too good for them because I think they're dumb and they have sex with people who aren't me, which makes them whores

--They also talk about things I dgaf about, so they're dumb by default, and not just girls with girl interests. They're dumb

--This is in spite of the fact they're also at my elite engineering school

--I can improve myself to a point where I am in better health, more physically capable, and more attractive to women

--I can make friends along the way and start a new and life changing hobby

--But I won't, because I can just pay someone for human contact when I desire, and I have no concept of solid female companionship, so I'll just dismiss that out of hand

--I won't, because I'd rather rationalize that I can only play basketball or lift at the gym, not do both (fun fact, I do both, and run and ruck--not on the same day obviously. I haven't died)

--I won't, because I've mistaken TRP for acute social nihilism and feel that judging the merits of being attractive to women and having relationships/sex with them by my brief moments of female contact with the odd college freshman is a solid plan.

--In other words, I am redlining my hamster to explain why I get no sex, why I shouldn't be a better me, and why everyone around me is dumb, all the while padding my ego.

Brother you have experienced the essence of early college women so well I wonder why you aren't getting laid 24/7.

Now look, this isn't to be mean and I don't fuck with people for fun, but I want to try to cut through the BS with you. If you want to be a sad sack and just mope around with your dry dick then go ahead and do that. If you really, really hate women just for being women and want nothing to do with them then whatever do that mgtow thing a fuckin year out of highschool. Yeah, that does sound pretty dumb, doesn't it?

I'll go so far as to say that this isn't just a difference of opinion, but that you're flat out wrong. Chicks are fun. Sex is fun. Hanging out with them can get a little annoying and this is why we have the strata of plates and GF/LTRs, because we select out those we just want to bang and pursue as such, and we select those whose company we enjoy, who we find interesting as people and partners, and we date them. Girls do the same thing. We all do this. Even among friends we have "truck guy friend" for moving day or "knows the club manager friend" and then we have Dave and Tim and Jeff, my boys. See what I mean? Any girl on your campus will have ten bootycall names by the middle of her first semester on campus. She might not date them but she Willams Sonoma's the shit out of those plates. My man, you should do the same. Because it is fun. Because it's a barometer of your progression as a man. Because despite the face you put on in these posts, you want it.

College is a lot of fun when you have the right mindset, and I, along with a shit ton of dudes here, would probably love^{^{^{love^{^{^{^love}}}}}} to go back to sophomore year and put the glory back in our glory years knowing what we know now (and we'd probably stay for super senior year nofuckindoubt). For you, as a freshman, you have a great opportunity. It's not even a joke when I say I am a little jealous of you. In six months you can see gains from lifting if you only put your vag in check and grip the bar. In six months you can murder whatever social anxiety you have if only you talk to your friends and have some sense of adventure. In six months you can see the best in your friends and not nit pick at little shit just to feel superior. In six months you can begin to love your life instead of complaining to TRP about how much everything is fucked and women suck and why do anything when I can just sling dollars around.

TRP can't live your life for you but you can learn from our mistakes and what we've learned. If this is a little too real for you then click that downvote arrow and tell yourself how I know nothin, Mccdizzle Snow. Ask me what my SAT score is. I could give a fuck.

SkorchZang · 2014-04-13T03:26:48+00:00

Prostitutes are normal women, shitlord.

A lot of people here would give their left nut just to be 19 like you and RP-aware. That's not just because they see themselves smashing pussy left and right almost effortlessly, but also because of having the ability to focus on what really matters, while all your buddies are out chasing pussy, making the same dumbass bluepill mistakes over and over.

I spy a very good deepseated unease in your post, stemming from how you gotta do all this work on yourself, just to be deemed worthy of cruising some broad's vaginal tunnel. And you're totally right. Makes no sense, when you can always just get a Fleshlight or rub one out like a man. You can always win at xBox instead of winning at life professionally. You can take drugs instead of experiencing your own weird, long winding path to enlightenment.

There's nothing more attractive to a bitch than a man who's his own man, one who's real to the core. So real he doesn't need to talk about it to her, it's just what he is. That comes from reflection about what being alive is all about, according to Rumbledust the First, earthman extraordinaire.

cyear · 2014-04-13T04:01:18+00:00

I used to workout to look good and impress girls and to some degrees, that part of my motivation. Drop that. Lose that thought completely. You workout because you want to be a man and be strong, not for women, not for looks but because it's self satisfying and fun to see your numbers go up. Nothing and I mean nothing should be done for the sake of women for self improvement. If you really don't wanna weight lift, then don't, but don't complain or be upset when you're not strong or be jealous of the guy who looks great and can punch a boulder into lava (re5 anyone?). My point is that everything must be done for you, otherwise you'll lose focus and motivation because it's not sincere and a true passion. People's whims change and so do their expectation, why even do anything for others? The answer is you don't. You're thinking in the right direction. Being a man naturally attracts women, doing what you love passionately and wholly without apology attracts women. Spinning plates can come naturally and definitely takes a lot less energy and money than prostitutes but you gotta put in the work up front.

2014-04-13T02:36:44+00:00

A good plate is a good woman you enjoy having around you. Ideally you want to get better quality with each bond you create. You will learn , as each is a learning experience aswell.

Try to avoid mental illness, esp. Bi polar since they can snap pretty bad.

Each bond should enrich you - as should you them. - leave them better than how you found them!

Edit: a prostitute has no intention of having fun with you. It is all transactional. Plates are reaffirmation bonds. They find you attractive and are a measure of your sexual market value. A hooker is only an indicator of your wealth.

Sturmgeist781 · 2014-04-13T03:11:41+00:00

1. Good sex with little to no effort.

2. No bullshit.

3. Willing to cancel plans with whatever beta guy that is trying to woo her.

4. Knows you fuck other women and doesn't complain.

DarkSayed · 2014-04-13T03:45:14+00:00

But, what is the point of spinning plates?

Whatever you want it to be. Pride, sexual satisfiaction, or maybe not much.

I choose not to at this moment in time, because I want to focus on other things. There's no rule that says you have to be fucking girls to be a man.

Lifting weights kind of sucks, and the only reason I'm doing it is to make myself more attractive to the vapid whores I despise (the hormonal, etc benefits of weightlifting aren't germane to this thought). Meanwhile, basketball is drastically more fun. I'm still improving myself physically, but improving a desired skill while enjoying myself and connecting socially with the guys I'm playing with.

I've started lifting weights after three years off. I do it because I find it (+ cardio) an effective way of getting and staying healthy. I feel energetic, alert, and in a good spirits if I work out regularly. If I don't, I feel sluggish.

Basically, what I'm saying is do whatever the fuck you like, just be in control of yourself and work for yourself. There's no single right way to live your life.

2014-04-13T13:44:59+00:00

To get any actual sexual attention, I'd have to undertake a massive campaign to improve my SMV

Not really. Just spin plates with 6s and the occasional 7 while you get more muscular etc.

cooltrip · 2014-04-13T14:56:46+00:00

All the pleasures of sex: orgasm pleasure, D/s pleasure, ego pleasure, etc...

A prostitute only gives you the orgasm pleasure, but no the ego pleasure or the D/s pleasure, since she has sex with many men.

If you want to take formality a step further, the biological possibility of having your own offspring.

On a side note, the only Alpha way of spinning plates is with those plates begging you to keep them spinning.

Testiklease · 2014-04-13T14:59:03+00:00

I think you are looking at all of this wrong. You see lifting as a way to get laid. If it doesn't make you happy why do it then? I lift for me, because it makes me feel good. Not because I am trying to get laid. You're obviously being caught up with the fact that other people are getting laid around you, and think that you need to compete. Do things for yourself, not your penis or because people boast about all the tail they get.

redpillbanana · 2014-04-13T19:17:19+00:00

But, what is the point of spinning plates? What is the real payoff of fucking girls? Is it to prove to yourself that you can? Does it just happen so naturally once you have a SMV that there's no reason not to?

If you actually have to ask what the "payoff" is for fucking girls then there's really no point in spinning plates.

Basically, what benefit do normal women provide over prostitutes? Why should I bother putting in work to attract them? I'm not going to have kids ANY time soon, and that's the only reason I can personally think of dealing with 'civilian' women.

I've heard that prostitutes offer something called the GFE (girlfriend experience) for extra cost - which goes to show that girlfriends offer much more than the typical prostitute. I assume they'll do things like cuddle with you and avoid looking at their watch to see if your time is up.

Prostitutes won't cook for you, bring you little gifts, give you spontaneous massages, let you crash at their place, run errands when you're sick, or do many of the other things that people do for friends and lovers.

Seeing that look of desire in your girlfriend's eyes, or watching her beg you to stay for a few more minutes - that's something you'll never get from a prostitute, no matter how much GFE they offer.

If you don't care much for the GFE, then prostitutes are perfect.

Title	What makes plates worth spinning?
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Date	April 13, 2014 1:05 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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1. Good sex with little to no effort.

2. No bullshit.

3. Willing to cancel plans with whatever beta guy that is trying to woo her.

4. Knows you fuck other women and doesn't complain.