[UPDATE] My roommate is having a dress up lingerie party.

2015-12-31T14:14:31+00:00

This reads like fictional erotica and I don't believe it happened, but I'll try to respond as if it were real (hope that's okay, daddy).

If this is real, and as constructive criticism, you got really lucky. Your closing game sounds awful (actually, non-existent). You obviously build a lot of attraction, but you straight up left the party to go to bed. The fact that things worked out is only because a woman (multiple women) decided to take the initiative and make sex happen after you basically told them "go away, I'm going to sleep now.". That's a really rare event. You basically let it up to the women to finish the seduction. If you had simply closed them yourself (inviting them to your room to look at your comic books, whatever), you could have had a near guaranteed close (sex), rather than relying on them to take the initiative (rare event).

Obviously you've learned the value of having parties at your house, the social value of being the host and how much easier that makes things. However, you got lucky here. You obviously built a lot of attraction, but then decided to go to bed. The women could completely have read that as "leave me alone" and left you alone. Maybe you would have closed them another day, but you should be doing that on the night of, not disappearing. You got lucky they kept barging into your room instead of leaving you alone to sleep. To get consistent results you have to be the one leading, from beginning to end. I mean, congrats on the success, obviously you've learned how to build attraction and the value of being the host at the party, but you basically threw up a long distance 3 and it went in (actually, better analogy is that you did a nice spin move to get around the defender, broke some other guys ankles and then messed up the undefended lay-up at the end, but your teammate got the rebound and put it in for you). This could very much have ended as "All these women seemed interested in me, hanging off me, so I went to bed alone and woke up 8 hours later. I woke up and they're all gone and now not interested in me now that they're out of state - what did I do wrong seddit?" If you take the lead, you avoid having to get lucky - you make sure it happens.

Turlast · 2015-12-31T17:28:35+00:00

Amazing story. Most guys dream of being in situations like this.

SublimeScholar · 2015-12-31T20:29:22+00:00

Hey man, I just wanted to say that I thought you handled everything well and I don't understand why you're being downvoted for not trying to fuck every girl you were alone with. Not fucking your roommate is common sense & not every girl is willing to fuck people they don't know well (like Iris). Being calm and composed around a bunch of half naked girls is much more impressive than trying to fuck as many of them as you could or being a creep.

Some of these guys are telling you WHAT to do, not HOW to do whatever it is you want. What you want to do is entirely up to you. How you do it- that's what game is all about. Improving the way you seduce women. It's not about which women you should seduce; that's entirely up to you.

letsgetrandy · 2015-12-31T17:11:53+00:00

First off, roommate wants sex. You should give it to her.

Second, stop idealizing Iris. You can't treat someone differently just because you think differently about them. When you stop being attractive/seductive, they lose interest.

Third, you fucking blew it, man. You could've had a three-fer, but your silly "honor code" or whatever made you pass on at least two sure things. If a girl gets in your bed and you don't seal the deal, don't fool yourself into thinking she'll get back into your bed.

HelicopterSack · 2015-12-31T14:19:41+00:00

Thanks for doing the follow up :)

That truely sounds like an awesome night. Surely one to be remembered.

Keep that positive vibe going, you are one lucky man!

peachesandcreame · 2015-12-31T19:42:24+00:00

Could've potentially had 3 lays in one night

Title	[UPDATE] My roommate is having a dress up lingerie party.
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Date	December 31, 2015 1:53 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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