Was invited to a New Years party last night and knew no one besides the girl I had a crush on. "JUST FUCKING GO". I went and learned my biggest lesson for 2016.

DoubleSlapDatAss · 2016-01-02T05:23:15+00:00

As a person who stayed home for New Years, i envy you

Congrats!

sammalonespitbull · 2016-01-02T05:36:50+00:00

Escalate it with her or you will regret it in the future. Do light kino.

I have liked this girl for a few months and we ended up at the same new years party. Staying in the same room.

We were out all night I talked to other people and had fun. Then I separated her from the group walking back and put my arm around her from the cold. Then rubbed her arm and when we stopped at stoplights pulled her close.

We kept walking then I moved my hand lower. We got back to change to go to another room to party. I said I needed some gatorade, so I sat in one bed. Then she changed to go. She sat down on the other bed and I went over, looked her directly in the eyes and made a move. We made out, escalated and then hooked up.

She liked me, but didn't make a move. I had fun with my other friends and slowly escalated. You will regret it, that is what you need to do in 2016.

Bubba1996 · 2016-01-02T14:11:36+00:00

Im practicing justin waynes domino effect structure, I WILL GET GOOD WITH WOMEN THIS YEAR!

gigitygigitygoo · 2016-01-02T16:46:26+00:00

That's all there is to it. I joined a group of about ten where I only knew one person. Made friends with the guys and girls then made my move on one. We hit it off but turns out she had already invited a dude she had previously met to join.

I go for a smoke with a couple others and upon my return he's arrived and they're getting close. Not dissuaded from having a good time I make friendly with another newcomer. She's hot and we get to chatting. The previous girl keeps giving me the eye while with her guy and the current girl catches on. We get friendly and make out a few times, exchange numbers, and now she's got to take her friend home so she leaves.

After she departs another chic whom I was seated next to upon my arrival approaches and says we need to get food. She has a bf but he's overseas. I go along but she knows everyone there so I don't make any advancements. Logistically we couldn't go due to others so that was it.

The take home, go out of your comfort zone, make new friends, be candid in your approach, and build social proof.

xMadDecentx · 2016-01-02T06:40:34+00:00

Congrats dude. You learn a lot about yourself when you put yourself out there.

theredeemteam · 2016-01-02T07:12:24+00:00

make the move already on Sadie before she becomes uninterested

txroller · 2016-01-03T00:23:09+00:00

You know my biggest regret still to this day? I NEVER FUCKING MADE A MOVE.

it seems every other post in this sub has something similar

GLOOTS_OF_PEACE · 2016-01-03T02:17:20+00:00

Good one, you made the right choice with going to that party. You seem to have the right attitude so i hope this doesnt come across in the wrong way: it's kinda too late for you and her. Now i believe in never saying never, but a guy who is good with girls makes it happen straight away. No doubt she has fucked plenty of other dudes all this time. You were supposed to get your dick out when you were on her bed. Thats what girls want. Ah well all good holmes.

2016-01-02T20:49:48+00:00

Congrats. You went to a party with hot girls and talked to guys the whole time. 10/10 seddit post

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