As a man, he hates a lot of man (and hamsters a lot)

Adroxiom · 2014-04-13T14:56:54+00:00

WAAAH!! WAAAH!!

I'M NICE TO GIRLS AND THEY DON'T FUCK ME. THEY FUCK THESE ASSHOLES INSTEAD!!

/s

EDIT: Did I really have to put the sarcasm flag in? lol

hairaware · 2014-04-13T15:21:11+00:00

Top comment is hilarious.

I have a feeling we would get on very well.

-THE_GAY_COMMUNITY

semigod__ · 2014-04-13T14:29:15+00:00

he just needs to convince women to stop fucking such "bro" types and they will disappear.

good luck with that.

newbie3hunna · 2014-04-13T15:25:12+00:00

Overall I understand his frustration. These type of guys are typically without much depth and have a weak moral compass. What he isn't understanding is that despite being complete idiots they have a few key things he lacks.

One is confidence, which is why he is so frustrated that they "get away with everything".

Second would be a sexual energy. I'm assuming this guy doesn't work out, isn't very aggressive, ect. This makes him about as attractive as a fat girl. Maybe she is smart with a good personality but who the fuck cares? I'll take my chances with the dumb blonde with a knock out body. Girls are thinking the same thing, but their defining factor is an aggressive and sexual personality. This concept just flies over his head.

Being a stupid bro obviously isn't something to envy. Generally their lives are without real meaning and they have a narrow and confining view of the world. This guy needs to step back a second and realize that just because you don't like someone, it doesn't mean you can't learn from them and better yourself.

lightfire409 · 2014-04-13T15:00:45+00:00

Nothing to see here folks. Just another guy whining about how guys that get laid a lot act like bros. Useless drivel is what it is.

At least hes just venting and not trying to change everything like a feminazi.

What I always wonder is why guys like this fine chap never think about why men act this way. And the indisputable answer is: it gets them laid. Acting as if girls are sex objects yields you sex from girls! Wow! What a novel coincidence!

Then all the blame gets placed on the men even though male behavioral patterns exist solely to attract females in many species.

[deleted] · 2014-04-13T15:34:55+00:00

I don't hate these guys because I'm jealous

lmfao BULLSHIT

[deleted] · 2014-04-13T15:20:38+00:00

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What is this?

Throwaway811122 · 2014-04-13T17:01:45+00:00

I read stuff like this and see how this could have perhaps one day been me if I hadn't come here and realized it was time for me to be unplugged. The combination of protracted loneliness and sexual frustration does terrible things to your brain. I saw somebody write this quote a few months back and it fits so perfectly here: "You can yell and scream in rage at the fact that it's dark...or you can light a candle."

I hope this guy finds some peace.

[deleted] · 2014-04-13T21:33:52+00:00

Used to work with a lot of these type of guys in the oil fields of Alaska, and for a while I felt similar to this guy. It's bullshit, though. Seen through the right lens, most of these guys are not actually assholes. Even when they call you a faggot or whatever, they're most often playing around with you, and often when they call out your beta behavior by calling you a pussy or a faggot they're actually trying to help. Yeah, they could choose their words better, but you may have actually been weak or shown cowardice, and that's what they mean to communicate to you.

If you actually take the time and have the capacity for empathy to understand these guys, you can learn and grow a lot around them because they'll be more blunt with you than the rest of society. I worked for a guy one summer in the oil fields who I suspect may have even been a sociopath, and openly called me fat and made fun of me for my lack of success with women. It pissed me off, but made me a better person, too. I lost about 30 lbs. that summer working out and playing games with him in the camps at night, and became a lot more confident. He actually wanted to see me get better, unlike all the "nice" people you meet who accept your miserable self the way you are and didn't really care about your growth.

boydeer · 2014-04-13T16:08:01+00:00

this is one of those "i'm ashamed to be a man" things. what i wonder is why no women are ashamed to be women.

fwiw, i do have some decent female friendships. they're girls who i like hanging out with who are for whatever reason sex/dating is off the table. i get female affection and validation from them, which is nurturing to me psychologically and emotionally and helps me be healthy and sane.

insanitygrows · 2014-04-13T15:05:13+00:00

While I agree with this guys complaints in a way, he's focusing on the wrong problem. If he dislikes these types of guys (and most intelligent folk do) then don't go hanging out where they hang out. And don't hang out with the type of women that go for these douche bags.

Yes "bros" are terrible people, but so are the women that go for them. Don't waste your time with either.

PUAreadingmaterial · 2014-04-13T15:31:12+00:00

And yet, he is friends with these guys and will continue to do so.

This is the typical reddit user in a nutshell. Little to no self-respect, useless, and passive aggressive. "I'll post about my problems, but I sure as hell won't fix them! They'll figure it out soon enough!"

[deleted] · 2014-04-13T16:56:34+00:00

unfortunately I used to be that guy...

He just needs time and I bet he'll change his tune once he grows older

gopooner · 2014-04-13T19:09:01+00:00

I actually don't like these "bro" types that much either. Normally they're idiots who won't amount to much in life.

They don't even get laid that much tbh. They're just really rowdy and try too hard but still fail. They put on a charade because they're insecure. In reality, they don't sleep with half as many girls as they present themselves to have slept with.

insanitygrows · 2014-04-13T15:02:16+00:00

what is a "camp job" ?

[deleted] · 2014-04-13T21:05:35+00:00

You know who drives me nuts? My fellow men that associate with my gender and do nothing but generalize and belittle us in some vain attempt to appear cultured or intelligent. It can also be assumed that most of their finite time and energy is spent on this as opposed to improving themselves.

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[deleted] · 2014-04-13T17:27:57+00:00

I see it said all the time by the pussified sections of our society, but how many of us are really high-fiving our bros when they cheat on their girls? I don't.

Incubuns · 2014-04-13T15:46:55+00:00

TL;DR: man raised by women and conditioned to tell women what they want to hear ("men with high self esteem who live for their own pleasure are AWFULLLL!") and even use misandric slurs ("bro" is code for "man who is a bad person because he acts like a man") is in crisis because he's desperately unhappy and doesn't know why.

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duurrrrr · 2014-04-13T19:49:10+00:00

He doesn't have the balls to become what it takes to get women so he'll hamster it off instead.

TheSKSpecial · 2014-04-13T23:05:51+00:00

The comments are equal parts hilarity and pity-inducing.

Oh thank God you wonderful person. I'm a 20 year old losing my faith in the opposite sex. I have a great boyfriend but i feel like he's different from every other boy these days.

Odds we see a "I cheated on my bf 14 times while on vacation and I don't know what to do" thread in the near future?

"I make this same argument a lot to friends, though not as concise as you put it. I'm an adult male who still enjoys playing Pokemon cards and watching Dragon Ball Z. I watched the first 3 seasons of Gossip Girl. I like to clean, cook, and pamper my girlfriend. I fucking hate Football and I don't care about learning how a car works. I tried to mount my tv on the wall last week and it fell, leaving two giant holes. I'm not cocky nor do I feel like I need to compete with any men.

No shame."

I foresee a one-sided "poly relationship" in this guy's future.

"Straight guy here. Yeah I totally agree with you, dude. I'm not the "manliest" guy around; I can't grow facial hair, I don't have the >deepest voice, I'm not ripped and I don't really go in for all that fratty "bro" shit. I really dislike the fact that these kind of guys make open >shots at guys to their faces because they feel that they're bulletproof "real" men. Example: a few days ago I walked past a bunch of funboys having beers at my uni bar, I was still in my gym gear (because I'm trying to lose weight and make myself happier with how I look and feel) and one calls out, "Sick gym sesh, brah?" Not an >apparent insult, but still made me feel shit."

Jesus Christ, how the fuck does a compliment make you feel shitty? How the fuck do you become that insecure?

puaSenator · 2014-04-13T23:59:53+00:00

He claims to hate men, but he really should be mad at the women. The only reason guys like this exist is because it's a successful mating strategy. If being a nice guy like OP was the most successful way to get a GF or laid, then every man would switch to that tactic.

It's just natural selection. And if he doesn't like the men that are like this, then he needs to start telling women to stop fucking them.

watersign · 2014-04-13T21:29:01+00:00

Am I the only one who feels sorry for this guy? He's been lied to about female sexuality his whole life - by parents, teachers, media, women themselves... not just left in the dark, mind you, but lied to. The enormity of it is too much to deal with. That's why we call it the red pill, after all.

So he's trying to fit reality into his world view instead of the other way around. The "bros" must be getting attention from women despite the way they act as opposed to because of the way they act. This is setting up cognitive dissonance in his head, and he's stuck in a mental loop:

"I know women want this, but my experience is telling me women want that. But my women friends tell me they want this. But when they choose a guy he's not what they said they want."

He doesn't understand how, when he showers a woman with attention for months and she seems to like him well enough and any day now they'll cross over from being friends to being more, some crude tatted asshole who treats women like shit meets her and beds her the very same night. Then she's all broken up over the jerk and all the while he's right there ready to treat her like a queen.

He's mindfucked, and that's how he's arrived at the solution of sending all the "bros" to some distant planet, because that's more likely in his mind than everything, everything, he's ever been told by anyone about female sexuality is wrong.

ryeprotagonist · 2014-04-13T16:05:49+00:00

As a bro-type, I hate when the word "chauvinistic is misused.

[deleted] · 2014-04-13T16:12:22+00:00

I mean the type of guy that downgrades another woman

"another" woman? Says a lot about how that guy sees himself. Probably a wanna be transvestite.

[deleted] · 2014-04-14T04:58:26+00:00

I saw that post and I upvoted it. Damn I'm beta. I got to swallow more pills.

VZPurp · 2014-04-13T17:47:29+00:00

He's no man.

Title	As a man, he hates a lot of man (and hamsters a lot)
Author	wittyposts
Upvotes	76
Comments	65
Date	April 13, 2014 2:13 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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