Say I'm walking from place to place going about my day not trying to draw the attention of any woman (no game). Ex. Work, grocery store, mall, college, ect. What makes a certain type of girl attracted to me? I can walk into a room and point them out. If I walked up they would be more than happy to date me.

This type I am talking about would be somewhere between a little bigger to plus size in weight, usually not cute, doesn't take care of herself, doesn't work out, probably no job, and commonly I have found a lot of suicidal girls even too. If I go on tinder I could get the same result most of the time.

I'm average (140 lbs, 5'9"), I work out, dress well, have some money, have goals, have a job, and overall just fairly well put together. Why is it that the girl that doesn't take care of herself is so interested while the skinny 8 or 9/10 blonde is over in the corner and wouldn't even give me eye contact unless I walked right up?

My thoughts were:

  • she has abundance
  • she also takes care of herself, so I am no longer higher value like the 5/10 sees me as?
  • she already has a guy
  • she shit tests, a guy worth her time will walk up to her?
  • she surrounds herself with guys like me already, whereas the 5/10 does not?

Any ideas? I feel like every guy has a type they attract without trying which is typically undesirable.