Older guys of seddit that have had a lot of success in the game, how much money do you actually spend on women? Is it possible to do it without spending a dime on her?

NovocainStain07 · 2016-02-11T23:24:37+00:00

Im not old by no mean, but im old enough (24) to know how things work (if someone else reads and thinks otherwise correct me)

It is possible to get laid without spending a dime on girls. Mind you, that you have to spend money to groom yourself (or fix things like teeth), go out regurarly and generally have a good life.Having your own car and home is a huge bonus. But, for the vast majority of women, you wont have to spend a dime on them (excluding birthday gifts etc)

Now, there are women that demand that you spend on them, but most of them are basically looking for a sponsor, not someone to fuck them.It is doable to fuck them, but you have to be ridicously good, and sometimes accept that you are the one fucking them on the side while they have a ''boyfriend'' that still fucks them somewhat regularly. Do-able yes, but i personally do not like hanging out with that kind of people

Now, when you get older, you kinda need to have things like a job, a car and solid income so you dont look (and feel) like a loser, or else you will have to stuck fucking from the bottom of the pick order

daddymonsterpoodle · 2016-02-12T00:46:40+00:00

Yes...absolutely. My last date was minigolf and an icecream. Worked just fine. Doing the fancy restaurants and stuff seems like a bad idea. It always seems like you are trying to impress by how much money you can spend. To me that seems a bit needy and try hard, like wearing gold bling. Restaurant dates are boring. Besides it sends a pretty clear message that you want to provide beta bucks IMVHO. The date before that was playing pool, having a few beers and talking. K-close to f, close next morning. To quote the Pook "don't be boring". She would rather you had fun, creative ideas than expensive ones (unless she is a ho). Put some thought into it, knowing what they like.

tl:Dr have smart ifun ideas, not expensive ones.

puaCurveBall · 2016-02-11T23:29:08+00:00

Zero dollars "on women", because everything is dutch.

First date is usually $4-$7 on coffee or a single beer for myself. After that, its only things I'd do anyway solo, so it isn't an extra expense.

ThrowawayPUA · 2016-02-11T23:36:06+00:00

Let's see.. about negative two dollars. I was about 47, she was about 32 and a former stripper. I moved into a new apartment building. She brought me a housewarming gift, a dozen eggs, which I thought was kinda weird but cute. When I fucked her the next day, that was my assessment: she was kinda weird but cute.

TheXXL · 2016-02-12T07:11:22+00:00

You never have to spend a single cent on a girl. It's about frame, and screening. Whenever I meet a girl that wants me to pay, I eject. Didn't happen often yet.

that-freakin-guy · 2016-02-12T08:54:41+00:00

Not much. If I just met them at a bar, nothing. If we're hitting it off, I might buy them a drink. I don't drink so this is cheap for me. First few dates, max fifty bucks. This is for food and tip if we go out to eat. Not including gas or parking or whatever, since I always drive anyway.

You can definitely 100% get laid without spending a dime, but you definitely won't be getting laid 100% of the time. A great date idea is a pint of vodka (buy it with them so they don't think it's spiked) and mini golfing. You'll spend like $20 and have a blast.

The cheapest route is to go to the beach and have a cute date on the sand at night. Bring some of those electric candles, the girl's head will explode at how cute it is. Bring small stuff like cheese, crackers and stuff, and maybe a bottle of wine. You can buy this stuff before hand and save a bunch of money. Wine from Trader Joe's is super cheap and good according to my girlfriend, stock up for hard times.

If you don't have a beach, go to your local botanical gardens. Usually free and you can take a bottle of wine with you and drink it there while you walk around.

The observatory is a cheap date, and free as fuck. You'll have a blast walking around and talking about planets. Lots of sex jokes can be made here.

The aquarium is usually really cheap and fun, and same with zoos. I recommend the aquarium, it smells better.

These days now that I have a girlfriend, I'm pretty sure I even own any money anymore.

bikowalczyk · 2016-02-12T20:28:54+00:00

Spend money on the girl only if you want to to this. What I mean by that if this is a girl that you especially like and you want to make her a gift 🎁 then don't hesitate!

As talking to dates it is plain stupid to take a girl somewhere expensive for the first date. It might (and will) come as needy because you don't even know if the girl suits you, but you already made a commitment buy going to dinner or whatever.

Sometime it will happen that a girl will pay for you when you go to cinema or for a coffee. She might want to show that she can manage on her own and then you're good to let her do this (although you might not want to use her for the money ;))

2016-02-13T12:36:34+00:00

42 and I would say I spend almost nothing, 10-20 bucks.

I think if you spend too much on a date you look desperate "please, please fuck me, no one else wants too". It also puts women on guard against sex because they don't want to just fall into a game of reciprocity. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reciprocity_%28social_psychology%29

Title	Older guys of seddit that have had a lot of success in the game, how much money do you actually spend on women? Is it possible to do it without spending a dime on her?
Author	ManoshD
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Date	February 11, 2016 10:55 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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