How to game solo?

AlphaEndoGorillaKing · 2016-04-02T19:48:15+00:00

Good looking loser has a solo night game program, it's like 3x a week for 3 months to get you totally comfortable with going out approaching and pulling solo. It basically slowly progresses of the amount of interaction you have with other people solo. like from saying hi, to approaching, to dancing alone, to dance approaching ect.

Day game solo is really no issue.

reddiot666 · 2016-04-02T21:04:47+00:00

I'd just approach women that are also solo. Places like library, park, mall are full of chicks that might be open to meeting new people. Try and stay away from girls that are above an 8/10 since they can be extremely confident (cocky) and ruin your day.

lykkejeger · 2016-04-02T21:14:43+00:00

Well done doing it. I want to do it as well. Any advice on how to get started? I think you should be proud of yourself. How old are you btw? Just curious.

Rojozeus · 2016-04-02T19:04:10+00:00

I have to day game because the night life here is...not. But for the very few girls I find here i just approach girls that catch my eye.

Big_TX · 2016-04-03T02:13:35+00:00

Congratulation on going out. That's what you have to do to get better and almost no one does it!

I'm not trying to be rude but:

How do you guys go out solo? Do you just go to the bar and talk to/approach all the girls that catch your eye? Or is there more to it then that?

Have you read anything? It feels like you are asking for a reply on what the entire sub is about. What books explain and that complies are based on. We approach and use game. Get into state. Build positive mindsets and frames. Do techniques like push pull try to form a connection

DashingTyro · 2016-04-13T14:27:04+00:00

I've been out of the game for a few years now (2012), but solo game used to be my jam. When I first started going out, I had some friends coming with me every night. One settled down with a girl, another got tired of going out, and the third moved to a new town. I was addicted so I kept going out. Here's what I found. Maybe it will be useful to you.

I stuck to bars. This was more a matter of necessity at first. I ended up working weekends, and clubs weren't often open during the week. Not sure if this was a good fit for my style, or if it shaped my style, but I now strongly prefer bars to clubs or any place where dancing happens. I know some guys have luck on the dance floor, but I think it's a trap and an absolute waste of time. I've built state on the dance floor on a few occasions, but that's about it.

Back to the bar. Initially, I found it useful to go out early. Like 8PM or something awful. I would talk to the bartender before he or she had a lot of customers, then talk to whatever customers started to come in. I tried to get good spots, where there would be a lot of traffic in my vicinity. It's a weak way of doing it, but I found being in those high-traffic spots would reduce my approach anxiety—and sometimes force people to approach me, even if just to say "excuse me."

Going out early gave me more time to build state and match it to the energy of the people that were out. If I would go out late, like after midnight, the people that were still out were partying for real. I'd have a hard time getting in that if I wasn't warmed up. Later I got used to this, especially as I took more of a screening approach, just looking for girls that were DTF. But that approach is highly contingent on who's out and not great for practice.

Contrary to what someone here already said—though they might have been talking about day game—I would not focus on solo girls. I did in the beginning, but I found that solo girls usually have some issue. Either they're not really solo and they're waiting for someone, or they're a bartender groupie, or they're fucked up in some other way. Plus, how many good-looking solo girls do you actually see in a bar? How many solo girls period? (Again, sorry to the previous poster, who may not have been talking about bars at all.)

That said, I would usually try to talk to girls when they were on their own in some fashion, like when they came to the bar for a drink, or when they were heading to or from the bathroom. Again, weak stuff. A real gamesman would probably give me shit for being too afraid to approach groups. What can I say? I was scurred and alone, and getting girls' attention when they separated from their groups was a lot easier. Eventually I'd probably have to deal with the group, but if the girl liked me at all, she'd make that easy too.

Another thing I found going out during the week—and this applied to solo and not—is that I could push a lot further than I thought. On weekend nights, girls legitimately might have a whole circus of bullshit to return to, whether it was who was driving them home, who they were driving home, where they were staying, whatever. Girls out during the week usually were more autonomous and ready to break off with a stranger (me). It's counterintuitive because I thought the excuses (gotta get up for work) would be more legit during the week, but I found the opposite. And thinking about it now, a lot of people will show up late, tired or hungover to work in exchange for a fun night. So yeah, I would generally try to close that night.

Here's my last little solo game hack: karaoke. It won't work for you if you don't like it, but I love karaoke. It became my pretense for being the bar, which is useful, since I would often get asked why I was out alone. (Don't I have any friends? Nope.) It would also be useful for building state, for generating excuses to talk to a girl (that was a great performance), and for roping a girl into doing a duet (The Time of My Life, anyone?).

Looking back, I wish I hadn't relied on so many crutches, as it stunted my growth somewhat. For instance, I never got over approaching groups. But as long as you're working on these other aspects of your game, maybe some of these tactics will be useful for you.

Title	How to game solo?
Author	YouPetroleumJelly
Upvotes	5
Comments	8
Date	April 2, 2016 5:38 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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