I'm 21, have been talking to girls since high school and have been rejected and lead on in so many ways since then. This semester I started at a University and I got rejected, got led on by a girl, got the numbers of two girls in a day and neither replied when I texted them a few days later.

Everyone I talk to about my dating problems say it must be the girls I go for, guys and girls say this. Some guy friends say I need to be more of an asshole. Yet when I look on here it sounds like I am the problem. I agree with that because there is no way every single girl I've tried dating has a problem and I am perfect or something.

I keep being told that I am pretty much bf material, attractive, dress nice, people can see I work out, etc. But I never get anywhere. I'm still a virgin and have been on like 3 or 4 dates total and Idk if they even count considering how they dropped me shortly after.

Has anyone had similar issues and how did you over come it because I feel like a failure at this point. I would like to talk to a counselor or some professional for this kind of problem but I'm not even sure if one exists or where to even look for one.