Practiced day game today , I am a newbie, so couldn't get much far. Couple of instant rejections, and about 3 "I have a boyfriend", "I don't have time" replies after some interaction.

Two thing I realised I need to improve [sure a lot more can be as well] :

  1. Improve my voice - when I am confident I speak in louder and deeper but otherwise it goes low, it goes shriller and it is bloody awful. When I'm in a conversation with a girl I meet at an event, it is actually not so bad but it is rubbish when approach girls at events or when I'm less confident in general.

Any tips for speaking in a deeper/louder voice?

  1. I struggle to keep the conversation going on the street. Again I can play it with a girl I met while dancing but with girl on the street even when she stops and listens, I am nervous and the default answer/questions come out.

Eg. Me : Hey, you look like a girl who smokes, do you have a lighter? She : Sorry but no. Me : I'll be honest, I just noticed you and thought you're pretty. She : Oh thanks Me : What's your name? She : Maria. Me : Oh, that's pretty? Where you from? She : Germany. Me : Oh, cool? Do you wanna may be catch up on some coffee somtime? She : Sorry, I've a boyfriend/other excuse. Me : No problem, it was nice meeting you.

I'm not sure, what really to say here. It is like my mind blanks out and goes into rehearsed lines.