Within a month of moving to a new state I've already got a car, landed a job and even taken a couple girls out to coffee through tinder - I'm not bad looking, eat good and exercise but I can't help feeling like a fucking loser. I could talk to girls about boring (favorite music, books and movies) shit all day long but when it comes to escalating and being sexual I have no idea what I'm doing. I've even resorted to meeting trannie's on casual encounters through craigslist because I don't feel I am capable of pulling an actual real live human female - So I figure the next best thing is a chick with a dick... I'm just now realizing how low my self-esteem must really be to do shit like that, what do I do?