I always think that if you aren't attractive enough you cant pick up Hot/Attractive girls

krisi_lovelifesolved · 2016-05-26T01:03:17+00:00

you mean attractive looks or in general? Because you can be extremely attractive even if you don't have the best looks.

Well, looks don’t play a big role, they are just the cherry on the cake. Don’t get me wrong –your physical appearance is important because it tells a story about you. It shows what you value, what social group you belong to and how well you take care of yourself.. So, the key is definitely self-improvement. Improving yourself will increase the number of women who are attracted to you.

“The only real dating advice is self-improvement. Everything else is a distraction, a futile battle in the grey area, a prolonged ego trip.”

– Mark Manson, “Fuck Yes or No”

But besides this, you should know that women perceive men, who they are emotionally attracted to, also as physically attractive. So the more a woman is into your character and the way you are the hotter you seem to her.

Qualities that make you emotionally attractive to women:

1. Social status

Social status is the value other people ascribe you. It depends heavily on the environment you are in.

For example: A DJ has high social status in a club he works at. At the club he will be perceived as much more attractive than he actually is because of his job, but if you meet the same guy in a grocery store, his attractivenesswill be back to normal.

The best way to get social status is by hanging out with people who already have it. Let’s say you go to a standup comedy class and meet the DJ there. He is a nice guy and the two of you get along great. So he invites you to come to the club he works at. He puts you on the guest list, gives you a couple of free drink coupons and when you are at the club you can come up to the turn table and talk to him.

2. Confidence: How To Develop Bulletproof Confidence – The Ultimate Guide**

Confidence is the so-called “secret” to finding fulfilment, feeling worthy, and getting what you desire in life. What’s more, it also happens to be the most attractive quality a man can have.

Confidence is a mindset thing. What you think about yourself is what you show the world. If you believe you are attractive (http://www.lovelifesolved.com/do-you-believe-you-are-attractive) then you will be. Likewise, if you don’t like the way you look it will also show in your behavior.

You can read about becoming attractive in the ebook “Basics of Attractiveness”. It’s filled with tips & tricks on how to become more confidentand attractive without having to act like someone you are not.

Besides that, I’m hosting a confidence building retreat – Conquer Confidence – The Retreat. Take a look!

P.S. Keep in mind, that if you try to appeal to everyone you end up appealing to no one.

BrettEllisDotNet · 2016-05-26T04:39:00+00:00

Have you seen how ugly some of the "wold renowned PUA's" are? It's obvious that looks don't count for much at all. Good DNA does count, but good DNA isn't just about aesthetics.

ibegross · 2016-05-29T04:42:21+00:00

Not true at all! I have many family friends who are average looking with average income but have a VERY outgoing and happy personality and are therefore able to land attractive women (and marry them too)

Title	I always think that if you aren't attractive enough you cant pick up Hot/Attractive girls
Author	I_Main_TwistedFate
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Date	May 26, 2016 12:46 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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