How do you cope with past mistakes?

Fumblz · 2016-06-29T18:47:16+00:00

Contemplating the passed doesn't change the future. Instead of saying, how can I change the past. Think what can i learn from this, why don't i like it? What can i do to reduce the risk of repeating the same mistake? Start making the change.

Beating yourself over the head about things will never let you move forward. If you are moving in the right direction, you can allow yourself to forgive yourself because you are making the right decisions.

I used this technique to get over my addiction to drugs, cigarettes, toxic relationships and overall to make me less of a "Bad Person". Some people turn to religion, some people turn to therapy, this is the technique that worked for me and i hope this works for you.

I now reach out to people to help their lives progress instead of being stuck in the loop of bad habits and horrible life style.

No i do not get paid for it.

DoctorHandsome · 2016-06-29T19:52:52+00:00

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.

YMangoPie · 2016-06-29T21:44:23+00:00

Stop wishing for a better past.

ThrowawayPUA · 2016-06-29T20:17:12+00:00

Tyler has a long rant about this somewhere or other. Your failures are "reference experiences" you use to build up your abiities. He says "every failure is a brick in your castle." You use your memories of failure to back your determination to succeed.

LiberalPenguin · 2016-06-29T21:12:53+00:00

Accept it happened, learn what you can from it and move on.

Blackouttsi · 2016-06-30T03:26:21+00:00

Think of an arrow shot from a bow, watch it fly away and understand you can't retrieve it. I literally learned this while competing in Archery, you can't take the shot back so don't worry about it. Most of the time those roots are in the thought process that life could have been better. Well, if you win a million bucks tomorrow, how could life be better than that? So try to strive toward better goals that bring a higher level of success. Past failures will then seem much smaller.

Troglodytarum_Facies · 2016-06-29T23:02:26+00:00

I smoke weed every day

Title	How do you cope with past mistakes?
Author	sedditpost
Upvotes	8
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Date	June 29, 2016 6:07 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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