Hey guys,

I just moved in the suburbs of my city. Something like 40mn door to door from the city center. I used to live in the center, so for a Tinder date, I'd meet them then pull them at my place.

When on a Tinder date how should I now handle the logistics? How can I go to her place on a first date? Should I bluntly say, we can go at my place but it's 40mn away, what about yours?

In my experience girls tend to feel more socialy pressured when I am at there place or speak of going there on a first date. Like they know it's to have sex and they don't feel confortable because they can't just leave if they change their mind, which they could do at my place .

What kind of techniques are there to either build enough confort in that goal, or create a situation/find a good reason to go at her place ? Is a second date inevitable ?