How do you guys handle "Talkers"

eviiil · 2016-08-19T15:20:33+00:00

I deal with it by listening. You can still have attractive qualities about you subtly communicated by body language and demeanor while listening.

Also interrupting her, if done playfully and right can build a little sexual tension and be funny.

Liquorpuki · 2016-08-19T15:39:28+00:00

If she won't shut up, she's probably a nervous talker. Filling in empty space w words to avoid awkwardness is what nervous talkers do. Most people are the opposite btw - they feel social anxiety and get all quiet and stuck inside their head in analysis paralysis. Nervous talkers feel anxiety and just talk and talk and talk

I just cold read them and if it's not an annoying turn off I tell them I think it's cute. IE when you get anxious you ramble a lot huh. That's like the opposite of me.

What's cool is if she's a nervous talker but she gets quieter around you, you know she's comfortable w you

Clyde_Frag · 2016-08-19T16:09:20+00:00

I'm naturally more of a listener anyways, so this type of person I have no issues with. As long as you listen, make funny side comments, and tease her a little bit, you should be fine.

Fallapitorius · 2016-08-19T16:14:12+00:00

If you're just looking to showcase your "game", and her talking this much bothered you, then you're going to be hardpressed to make any sort of progress with a worthwhile girl.

IANAPUA_Yet · 2016-08-19T16:51:30+00:00

Let her talk. Escalate kino.

YennoX · 2016-08-20T00:30:00+00:00

You're doing great. If anything, you WANT her to do 90% of the talking. If you're trying to showcase yourself, that means you're seeking approval and she will pick up on your desperation. You have nothing to prove with women.

Title	How do you guys handle "Talkers"
Author	tootruecam
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	August 19, 2016 3:17 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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