Going on my first online date Thursday. What tips should I know for a total noob.

letsgetrandy · 2016-08-22T15:11:35+00:00

Just have a good time. Go with no expectations.

perd91 · 2016-08-22T16:07:54+00:00

Go there to have fun. Don't overthink your lessons, they should come to you subconsciously. If you're having a good time, chances are she will also have it.

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-08-22T19:19:53+00:00

don't save anything for the last minute. If you are wanting to kiss her do it during the date. if you feel like you couldn't during the date then do the touching / vibe building etc that would make it so you could do it.

revente · 2016-08-22T22:14:07+00:00

Well, there are different schools. And some people like to structure their dates a lot. But i prefer to stay simple. I invite her to have some drinks, and usually have a plan where to go for a walk later, and maybe some place to grab a bite. Overall focus on:

-Getting to know her.

-Touching her a lot

-Trying to kiss her by the end of the date.

-Having fun.

ThrowawayPUA · 2016-08-22T19:57:54+00:00

What tips should I know

You should tip a minimum of 15%, at least 20% for good service.

pathe1 · 2016-08-22T17:41:29+00:00

i've never had a date in my whole life and I probably never will. People from teh UK don't really date much, anyway, but I would have no idea what to do!

I mean, I guess i'd just ask them questions about their family, their job, etc etc, but I have no idea how that would be much fun, or how i'd be able to turn the date kind of sexual.

Dating isn't much of a 'thing' in the UK. I mean, people only tend to go on a 'date' when they are already in a relationship and have already had sex, lol. At that point, there's no pressure anyway

Even 'tinder dates' in the UK tend to be the girl comes over and you just have sex, from what my friends tell me...not exactly a 'date'

Good luck, bro!

MindsEvolve · 2016-08-22T15:51:44+00:00

Have a game plan. For first dates, I always recommend having "The Cube" in your back pocket. It is my FAVORITE thing to have ready for first dates. It's just a conversational personality test you can use to build connection and make it a fun experience for both: http://www.getinhermind.com/sure-fire-routines/five-minute-personality-test-the-cube

Have a plan ready for the end of the date. Gauge her energy and at the very least go for a kiss. At the most, ask if she wants to watch a movie back at your place.

The best thing you can do is use this date as practice to make the cube fun, and you will start having awesome first dates.

Evan Magor - Honest Dating Coach - Anyone who wants an awesome dating life can schedule a FREE 30-minute skype session and ask me anything: calendly.com/evanmagor

Title	Going on my first online date Thursday. What tips should I know for a total noob.
Author	NYC19893
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Date	August 22, 2016 3:09 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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