How do you pick up girls at a club

SetonXC · 2016-09-07T12:51:08+00:00

Lift with your legs, not your back.

moeseth · 2016-09-07T16:07:08+00:00

If you see a group of girls, always talk to the ugliest one first. That's way you will get accepted to their group and start aiming for the one u like.

gogo_bogo · 2016-09-07T16:15:05+00:00

I've done a lot of nightclub game and I understand your frustration because its such a cut throat environment.

What works the best for me is instead of talking to the girl, instantly flirt with them by assuming they want you.

My game is simple, see a girl dancing that you want to dance with, go up to said girl, stand in front of her make eye contact and say these lines.

"I want to dance with you but dont be creepy. Dont put your hands here (puts hands over my chest/breast), here (put hands over my waist), or here (puts 1 hand over my crouch). Usually they chuckle. I then turn around and dance by grinding my ass their to pelvic bone but in rhythm (that's the part that takes a little bit of dance practice in the mirror).

If they are enjoy it they usually put their hands over one of the places you told them not. At that point you I slap their hands away turn around and give them the death stare. They laugh, its playful and I eject from the dance before she can. Before I leave I tell her something along the lines of, "you're not too creepy. Look for me later and I might get you a drink." Then I leave.

I wouldnt say that method is the best but thats the method that has worked out the most for me. Even with that said its about a low 40% rate.

Club game is difficult but once you figure your style and how to notice patterns and tendencies you'll do a lot better. Goodluck!

Gogo Bogo

IWriteForGroupies · 2016-09-07T12:58:17+00:00

Club game is trial and error mixed with planning. I actually love club game. If you go to a club, take some time and learn to dance. This is very important. Learn about the music.

If you are a drinker, don't drink too much. You want to be able to think properly and keep it up (drinking too much can affect your performance).

I noticed that most girls in clubs stick together with their cliques and refuse to interact with others, and blow away guys who approach the group without giving them a chance.

This may sound weird but some women are in the club just to have fun and hang with friends. They may dress like they want attention but some of them are doing it to make themselves feel good. Guys at the club often have many goals. Women are often approached several times a night by guys who want to sleep with them and date them. In reality this ruins their fun. This leads to them constantly rejecting everyone. The truth is that you don't want to be like those other guys. Be different.

I recommend dancing and having fun. Look like you having fun. When you approach them get to know the group. Give them time to talk to you and have a wingman if possible. Don't come off as desperate and be different. All clubs are not the same, you have to read the situation and make a decision.

Above all, try and try again.

As a guy, you will have to try over and over again to get success. This is normal because guys do not have a good reputation and some women have been spoiled. You will fail. Just move on to the next girl. Success will often come after many failures.

So back to my question, how do you guys approach girls in clubs?

I read the situation and make a decision. I often start dancing next to a girl and read her body language. Then I make a decision on whether to try to dance with her or not. I fail sometime and others I don't. I will see a girl with her friend by the bar. I will walk up and say something like do those shoes hurt and then I will introduce myself to the friend. Often I will find a guy not far from me and say that is my friend and try to get him to talk to the other girl.

MarTweFah · 2016-09-07T16:21:47+00:00

Dance and have a good time. They'll come to you.

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-09-07T19:34:35+00:00

hip hop classes

RelucBeam · 2016-09-08T01:04:50+00:00

You must read Bang by Roosh V. (The pdf is on google)

No other source of information can answer your question as well and as thoroughly

Partyintheattic · 2016-09-08T03:18:05+00:00

unlike most environments club game is too chaotic and has too much stimulus going on to just "pick up" women. apply the same things as elsewhere and expect more failure than before (unless this is a special kind of rich peoples club)

ThisTension · 2016-09-08T04:26:32+00:00

I recommend "blow out game"

First person to get blown out gets free drinks on the others for the night.

Say something you think will get you blown out.

First.. Often times it won't.

Second.. Everything after that will feel easy because you've already had the worst possible outcome and you're no worse for wear.

Approach girls and say ridiculous stuff.. Tell them to buy you drinks. Tell them you are filming a porn tonight and need more girls and want to know if they are interested. Whatever it takes. Just don't bring up rape or kidnapping.

Since you can't get rejected when that is the goal you win either way.

recyclablebanthas · 2016-09-08T05:14:29+00:00

And before anyone calls me out, lets not lie to ourselves here that most of the guys that frequent nightclubs are there to 'enjoy the music'.

You're missing the point.

Look, you can meet girls in many places. There are options. So if you don't like to dance and/or can't stand loud music, don't go to a club.

If you don't want to hook up with a girl who's probably looking for a disposable or short term dating experience, don't go looking for girls at a club.

So do I like to be with women? If course. But I don't go to a club because I'm "thirsty." That's just sad. I go there to dance and socialize. Girls are a nice side benefit.

I noticed that most girls in clubs stick together with their cliques and refuse to interact with others, and blow away guys who approach the group without giving them a chance.

Over-generalizing. Also, you're probably getting to the club too late.

Can you break through with a clique like that? Of course. But earlier in the night, before droves of drunk, awkward men have come at them, the women in a club will generally be in a better mood and easier to approach. So get there earlier.

Another common sight is a duo or trio of girls who will be dancing away in their own sweet world, and when I approach them, the other girls of the group will ask me to go away.

This probably has to do with your approach. Awkward approaches get stopped like that. It can be helpful sometimes to prequalify or open girls with eye contact.

Now I must mention that I'm not ugly or creepy, and would rate myself a 7.5. So back to my question, how do you guys approach girls in clubs?

Eye contact and smiling are a great way to open, while you are dancing for fun on the dancefloor.

Title	How do you pick up girls at a club
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Date	September 7, 2016 12:37 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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