Realistically, how much of a success rate should I have?

Jacob_961 · 2016-09-10T06:36:53+00:00

YOUR BIGGEST MISTAKE WOULD BE TO TAKE IT PERSONALLY.

What do you win by taking a rejection personally? You label yourself as defective. The best in the world know their weeknesses and proactively try to identify and work on it. The losers of this world try to blind themselves of their weeknesses and try to justify circumstances. The truth is "field experience is king". The more you play, the better you get. Simple.

pathe1 · 2016-09-10T09:51:26+00:00

I saw a video by simple pickup a while back. It was one of the guys filming himself, completely unedited, trying to pickup girls on the street for like and hour or so

Now, this guys is supposed to be an expert. A coach!

He got 100% rejections. Some were quite brutal. He never got CLOSE to even getting a damn number! It brought back a lot of memories of my nights out!!

I'm not sure whether it made me happy or sad to see his lack of success!

It made me felt like less of a loser which was nice, but at the same time it made me think ''damn, is it really worth it?!! You are looking for that 1 in a thousand girl who is both a nice, approachable person, AND who thinks you are good looking enough to hear you out!!''

It was brave for him to put it up, but I'm pretty sure he deleted the video soon after!! I guess it wasn't great for business!

Even all of the guys on Rooshv forum seem to only get laid with online game from what I read! (despite the forum being based on roosh's books which are all about approaching girls)

Basically, don't give up, but don't be surprised if you get rejection after rejection after rejection.

NOW, ALL THT BEING SAID, I don't plan to quit, because if it wasn't for direct approach, i'd be a virgin! :)

eviiil · 2016-09-10T15:23:08+00:00

Don't take these failures personal grasshopper.

Getting desired results more than being turned down doesn't happen. Anyone who says it happens is a bullshitter. Every legit guy who has great stretches is doing something to screen out time wasters and girls not interested in him.

Between devoted relationships, periods, her preferences as far as race and archetypes... you really only have a shot in hell with like 1/3 girls you approach. If you approach 6 and get 2 numbers your basically 2 for 2.

Fucking 2 to 3 girls in 100 cold approaches (you have no idea if she'll be into you or not) is reasonable.

YippyKayYay · 2016-09-12T22:04:02+00:00

You wanna know something that gets bounced around on this board and no one really listens to?

Always be approaching, Always approach the hottest girls you find,

Cause you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

For example, I'm basically dating an incredibly hot chick who I would've thought was out of my league a mere year ago. Know why? I saw her at a party, I figured what the hell, walked up to her and started talking to her. YOU MISS 100% OF THE SHOTS YOU DONT TAKE And the shots you take and miss? fuck em you're Wayne Gretsky you'll get the puck again

pathe1 · 2016-09-10T14:32:13+00:00

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5kevin · 2016-09-10T19:47:26+00:00

Well if you want to be realistic, you'd have to honestly rate yourself on terms of looks, height and body type. A good scale someone told me is if you get approached by girls often your an 8-9, if you get looks every now and then and girls respond to you with enthusiasm than 6-7. From there on is just down. NOW If you have game then looks don't matter AS MUCH. If you don't think they do, youre an idiot. Lets say your an 8-9 with good game. Around 60-80%. 6-7 with game 30-50% and any less you probably have a rate of 0%-5% lol there's no in between. Again this is all bullshit numbers and I made most of it up on the spot.

JUST APPROACH

2016-09-12T09:37:42+00:00

There is no standard for success. Even if you look like Brad Pitt if your game is terrible you will be a lonely Brad Pitt.

Big_TX · 2016-09-10T08:10:26+00:00

Don't take it personally, take it as errors in you game that you need to fix.

You need to know that you won't be every girls tipe, some will be in love with their boyfriends some will be lesbians and some will have have gone through something shitty like having to put their dog to sleep and not be in the mood to talk to guys.

The rest will be gamble. Take your failure as problems with game not you. They don't even know you yet.

Title	Realistically, how much of a success rate should I have?
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Date	September 10, 2016 6:06 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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