Contradiction in TRP

PolishDistiller · 2014-08-08T08:56:56+00:00

You are making assumptions.

House wife: It is only leeching if she expects you two to split housework and she spends more then you spend.
Career wife: She puts her career in front of family, this is doubly an issue if she makes very little compared to you, yet expects 50/50 split in the rest of house hold tasks.

MrEiffel · 2014-08-08T10:53:08+00:00

If a housewife raises 3+ children and turns the home into heaven for the man when he comes home, then that's a bloody unicorn of a woman as far as I'm concerned.

I'll bring home the bacon, that's my task.

GraphicSeniorNudity · 2014-08-08T06:53:38+00:00

Where does it say this in any reading material?

I'd be quite happy with a stay at home wife if she didn't pretend it was the hardest job in the world.

The "shaming" is in response to the idiotic complaints that are so common from both sides. Housework isn't the hardest thing in the world. Balancing a career and a family is not impossible.

What most people are complaining about is the tendency that Women have to move the goal line to suit their situation. Whatever they're doing on a daily basis is amazing, whatever they're expected to do is unrealistic, and anyone who pulls it off gets hated rather than emulated.

SickSadWorId · 2014-08-08T06:10:08+00:00

no one's perfect? who would have thought...

redbluerage · 2014-08-08T13:06:56+00:00

I work a professional job full time, take care of the kids, and keep the house clean and tidy, cook healthy meals and do all the laundry and other chores. I expect and receive no praise from my wife who works away in the city 3-4 days a week.

If it were the other way around she would want a medal/constant praise. As it is she bemoans the fact that she is missing out on the kids growing up, and picks fault as often as she can find it (bitch!).

That's the problem TRP has with these girls - men do what women do and just get on with it, where as women want praise for doing half of what guys can do.

The-Pussy-Whisperer · 2014-08-08T06:57:09+00:00

I smell entitled princess...

CallMeMrBadGuy · 2014-08-08T11:31:24+00:00

The ideal wife would never be considered leeching if she's pulling her own share. In fact, many of the guys seem to generally espouse that a man should be the sole provider in the house financially, and a woman would handle the domestics, maintaining, and general upbringing of the household. A la your traditional gender roles followed throughout history in the world, and still followed in less feminized societies. Wherein that brings the "shamed career woman". She is shamed by that subset of trp because to those types she automatically contradicts those expectations.

steveob42 · 2014-08-08T14:33:41+00:00

It isn't a contridiction in TRP, it is the reality of the current societal environment. Women got incentives to break up traditional families for personal pleasure, and here we are. Good luck!

sparta126 · 2014-08-08T16:22:04+00:00

The idea is that the woman provides for the children and does not figuratively "ride" the mans coatails. Watch house of cards on netflix. Though they have no children the wife is about as redpill woman as they come. She works , she values the mans career and supports him no matter what. The house is cleaned by maids and other paid men. If your Smv gets high enough house work, food, all that becomes a non issue. Most men 90% will never reach this Smv. I don't say that to discourage you, I say it to motivate.

kick6 · 2014-08-08T17:18:18+00:00

A stay at home mom that ACTUALLY worked in the house would be fine by the TRP standards. The problem is: a western woman thinks the job description is to fuck off all day while a maid takes care of the housework (funded by the man's salary) and a nanny takes care of the kids (funded by a man's salary). This won't fly.

Also, up until the point where there's children, stay at home mom doesn't even approach being a full-time job.

leodoestheopposite · 2014-08-20T13:34:29+00:00

You're correct, there's no ideal wife, so don't get married.

Title	Contradiction in TRP
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Date	August 8, 2014 5:03 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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