When you're going out tonight (WHEN, not IF) take this advice with you in stride.

I feel like I shouldn't have to mention it, but this is something that's all too common amongst people new to the concept of game.

Any time you go out to a party, club, or bar with the expectation of "getting laid", "slaying puss", or "picking up chicks", you're almost always doomed for failure. I can tell you not only from personal experience, but also seeing others go through the same thing that this mental construct just doesn't work. The bar is set too high, and not reaching it only leads to you walking home feeling like dog shit by the end of the night.

One thing that i've picked up from girls over time, is the idea of "fun".

You ask them why they made out with that guy? "I'm just having fun with my friends!"

You go on their tinder profile? "I'm just a good girl who likes to have fun!"

You ask the girl why she's not with her boyfriend that night? "I'm just here to get loose and have fun!"

So many different answers, but it all follows the common thread of the word "fun". Do you see where i'm getting at? Everyone has a different concept of fun, but none of these people will ever lose with that mindset, because it's such an all-encompassing, simple goal to reach.

What does fun mean to me? It means getting high, drunk, or any kind of twisted, and going out to socialize with as many people as possible. It can mean going out completely sober and challenging myself to communicate with as many girls as humanly possible. Piggybacking on that, it can also mean grinding with a ton of girls on the dance floor and making out with one, taking her home, and fucking her brains out. It can also mean playing video games all night until the wee hours of the morning with a good friend of mine.

What you need to figure out is, what does fun mean to you?