Do not ever, ever, EVER confuse a girl thinking you're funny, silly or witty with attraction alone. I've been doing this a long time. Tonight i had jerked off about three times prior to meeting my date. I felt relaxed and mentally sharp. Quipped jokes and anecdotal remarks about everything on the date. Had her in tears laughing at my bullshit.

But zero sexual energy.

I got lost in thinking i had the deal sealed by forgetting basic pua truth that i learned back in highschool. The girl 'loves' the funny guy, but would rather fuck the silent strong type, that will maybe say something funny here and there if the time is right.

It was humbling to think, after all the experience slaying and confidence I had from my past, could be kicked in the balls by "she doesn't want to fuck a clown".

Use humor sparingly, even if you're really a funny motherfucker...keep that comedic charm for your boys at the pub. When on a date, give her mystery and confidence. Don't joke with her like you're her girlfriend, or she'll see you as one.