[21M] Dating this great girl but another great girl has come into my life and the first one will be gone for the next four months...how does TRP suggest I deal with this?

HowDeepTheRabbit · 2014-08-16T06:18:51+00:00

It seems obvious that you need to break it off with Ashley. Shes going abroad, theirs gonna be plenty of foreign exotic dicks to comfort her. Its rough to think about but its the truth.

Tell her you don't want a long distance relationship and its been fun.

Then start meeting up with Erica. Be careful though, I assure you she isn't perfect and that kind of thinking can lead to a bad case of oneitis.

adamantjourney · 2014-08-16T08:29:41+00:00

You'll lose Ashley anyway. Better do it now before the other one finds someone else.

Toyu7 · 2014-08-16T09:41:22+00:00

Simple, turn ashley into a plate. Ashley doesnt find out about erica. Problem solved. Two plates #winning

LibertarianLibertine · 2014-08-16T12:33:11+00:00

Do you want to marry ash? No? Then whats the problem

[deleted] · 2014-08-16T14:52:06+00:00

If you think she's not going to be getting some dick while she's studying abroad you're absolutely crazy.

Go for Erica. If things work out for you, awesome. If not, have your fun and once Ashley gets back you can reignite things with her. Think about what you want to do. It's obvious you want to get with Erica so do it. You can't play a game not to lose. You gotta play to win. Be ready to take a loss just in case. There's 3 billion other women in the world. None of them are as special as they might seem at the moment.

[deleted] · 2014-08-16T15:15:32+00:00

Date both.

Unless you stupidly already promised exclusivity.

aescetic · 2014-08-16T17:21:29+00:00

Best case scenario, she doesn't cheat on you and you are still stuck using your hand. Let her go, you'll both be better off for it. Grats on having a new plate lined up too :)

[deleted] · 2014-08-16T18:58:43+00:00

You're a virgin. DO NOT GET ATTACHED TO ANY WOMAN. These are not perfect girls. They're the first girls who showed any interest in you. Bang them both at the same time and stop giving a fuck about the future. There are billions of women in the world. You are not in your prime yet. Better women will come.

Misteralcala · 2014-08-16T23:52:17+00:00

There is no such thing as a long distance relationship. If you cannot be physically present to ensure her needs are met, she will find somebody to fill them. You are trusting her not to have tingles for any of the many many exotic foreign men she will be studying with, and that is just not realistic. Her going abroad to study is your out.

You need to break it with Ashley and hook up with Erica or any other girl you are attracted to. It's not healthy to worry about what she's doing and she won't feel pressured to hide anything from you. Everybody wins.

[deleted] · 2014-08-17T09:50:32+00:00

TRP doesn't suggest anything, it's an amoral toolkit. You have the tools decide whatever you want to.

TheMightyAnusFlap · 2014-08-17T16:03:58+00:00

Fuck Erica anyway, ask for threesome before Ashley leaves. If she says no just tell her it's a deal breaker and say you can't be exclusive with someone who doesn't appreciate your needs. Then, you either get a threesome or you can just fuck Erica.

Also, never promise exclusivity to a woman.

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