Is social status important or not ?

recyclablebanthas · 2016-11-02T01:35:40+00:00

I keep hearing about social status and SMV so I'm wondering if it makes a difference in dating.

It's one aspect that matters more to some people than it does to other.

On one end of the spectrum, you have your anti-establishment, indie, hippie minded people who could care less about social ladders and the like.
On the other you've got gold diggers and people who care about clawing their way up and won't talk to people who can't advance them on some way.
And then there is everyone else in between.

So the question is, how much does that shit matter to you? I'd it doesn't, you don't need to worry about becoming some mover and a shaker just to get girls.

For example I'm a loner and don't hangout with many people so that means I have low social status ? And is that like a turn off for woman if you have little or no status ? Or does it not make a difference ?

If you're socially awkward, that matters. So you could stand to develop your social skills to the point that you can make friends and not be a loner. But you don't need to be some life of the party if that's not you.

If you're not the guy who gets complimentary tables for his friends at a VIP dance club, that will matter to some girls, but not to others. The question is whether you want to be after someone who's into that rat race.

Not everyone is.

EpicTuxedoMan · 2016-11-01T22:44:01+00:00

It definitely helps

yummbeary · 2016-11-02T09:41:28+00:00

It's simple. If you have a lot of status, you dont need to do any game and get laid constantly. More so, if you have a lot of status, you cannot do much game, because it will seem weird and game-y.

If you have little status, you need to have better game.

The less status you have, the better game you need. The more status you have, the less game you need and the less game you are allowed to do.

Noosterdam · 2016-11-02T14:43:08+00:00

It helps but isn't at all necessary (unless doing a lot of group stuff).

SexySmexxy · 2016-11-04T08:05:29+00:00

It definitely does matter

It is not the only contributing factor to life.

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Title	Is social status important or not ?
Author	baba_booey_18
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	November 1, 2016 8:53 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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