I've noticed this strange thing with dating. It seems like when I do things to make the girl not want to be with me, she becomes more interested.

On the flip side, if I try my absolute best to be as perfect as possible, even trying to seem like I don't care, then she disappears.

The reason I am posting this is there is a girl who has been seeing stars with me. I'll send her texts of like creepy dolls or just things that would push her away and she eventually called me her God. I decided I didn't want her in my life anymore so I started "trying to keep her" so she'd lose interest. I started telling her about my passions and little things that were factual but you would think would keep her around. I did this as an experiment to see if I could generate disinterest by trying to show her how cool I was and avoiding anything that could push her away... I order to push her away.

It literally took 1 day. For the first time since we met she only texted me once these past couple days and doesn't seem interested at all anymore. Too easy.

Regardless of how unfortunate this is, it seems like it holds some very important truth in keeping a girl around/ making her leave you alone.

So... Do things that would make her not want me? Seems counterintuitive but it has seemed to work in this and other occasions. Also the contrary, "trying to keep her around" to get her to go away.