Hello there, I'm a black 18 yr old male, first year community college student. I have always been pretty introverted and quiet, never speaking out much, kind of person. As you can figure, I'm not that good with girls, especially due to my fantastic years of high school(sarcasm). I have never had sex, had a girlfriend, kissed, or anything like that. I wanted college to be a new start for me, and was hoping to do some things differently. My older brother is really great with women, so of course it makes me feel a little bad. My mom says consistently that "don't worry about girls flibbertygibbits, there will be a special girl for you" and I never really talk about it to my Dad. Anyways, I have been a lurker of the red pill for about a month, and I decided that I need to cut the crap, quit making excuses and change. I won't believe in the garbage my mom tells me anymore, because it really doesn't seem like a good outcome. What is the best advice you can give me, and please give a little more detail then "be confident", cause I'm sure I don't have much confidence left.

EDIT: So what I'm getting at so far is that I should:

  • Look at the TheRedPill side bar links for more tips
  • Start lifting, and no sissy lifting
  • Gain confidence by accepting who I am and my past(kind of confusing)
  • Don't be a baby(whine, complain, make excuses)
  • The goal is to help myself
  • Don't be half baked about it, cause that won't do a thing
  • Success in health and financial aspects OK, I have classes Mon, Tues , Wed, Thur, about 9:30AM to 3:15PM, How much of non school time should go to lifting?