Seddit, I need advice, what am I doing wrong? I've been rated from 6-8's on my different rate me posts and from other people. However I can't seem to attract women or get them interested in me. I'm pretty skinny 5'7" and around 125lbs. Is that part of the problem? What could I be doing wrong?

jsbach123 · 2017-01-18T23:56:11+00:00

You're wayyyyy off-track when it comes to seduction from the way you talk repeatedly about your appearance

Women are very forgiving when it comes to a man's physical flaws. But they are brutally unforgiving over character flaws. Any hint of low confidence, low assertiveness, low sexual energy and low ambition and you're just friend material no matter how you look. So while you should reasonably improve appearance, obtaining proper character traits are what you should primarily work on.

revente · 2017-01-19T00:44:12+00:00

Well the fact is that if you are bad looking girls won't approach you because you are too ugly and if you are good looking girls won't approach you because you look to intimidating to them.

Just grow a pair and start approaching yourself. Become a chooser not a choice.

armshizzle · 2017-01-23T22:59:57+00:00

I was in the same boat as you man. What helped me was working out. My thinking wasn’t, "I'll build more muscle, thus look more appealing." Working out added a sense of confidence in me, because I felt good about myself. Other things you can do is record yourself talking, and then examine what areas you need to improve on. Also, adopt a "don’t give a shit" attitude. If you feel inferior to women, you have already lost. So, what if they reject you, there’s plenty more fish in the ocean. Even the most “good looking” people have their flaws. We’re all humans, we all get nervous, around someone.

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