How soon is too soon to ask a girl over for a dinner date at your place?

letsgetrandy · 2017-02-08T16:27:25+00:00

Just say "hey, rather than coming all the way downtown, would you like to have dinner at my place? I've got a great recipe for xxxx..."

SuperPoop · 2017-02-08T21:15:20+00:00

Think of the reservations a woman might have about doing this. She just wants to make sure it's not a rapey situation. If you're a great guy, you've made a great first impression, I'd say go for it.

She's going to be on guard though. There's somethings you can do to put her more at ease. Don't be overly touchy feely, ask her to help you cook, Pop the wine bottle in front of her and pour 2 glasses.

A girl who can appreciate you cooking for her is a good girl indeed.

Last tip, make sure it's something you know you can cook. I once made fried chicken and she was late, the chicken sat in the grease and it sucked it all up. I was disgusted by eating it. She was polite though. Haha

pyr0phelia · 2017-02-08T17:24:43+00:00

It's never 'too soon'. If she says no move on.

t1mman · 2017-02-08T20:52:48+00:00

No, it’s not! Done that a couple of times and it’s a pretty awesome date! You’re at your place, you get her involved in the process (shows your leadership, your teaching skills, girls love that!) and your bedroom is right there! It was usually my second or third date and I live far from the city, about 30 min ride.

Cull_The_Meek · 2017-02-08T23:20:55+00:00

Not too soon man! Second date is golden! If she's uncomfortable with it / feels it's too soon it should be up to her to voice that and suggest an alternative.

Title	How soon is too soon to ask a girl over for a dinner date at your place?
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Date	February 8, 2017 4:14 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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