I am 21, never had gf (I had one when i was like 13, she broke my naive heart back then)

I Dont want GF because in this situation i would get oneitis, get needy sooner or later - then she would dump me And I would be even more depressed than I am now.

I have confidence in other areas of life but not so in my social And more importantly dating life.

I want to get lots of experience before pursuing relationship, I want that abundance mentality. When girl dumps me I want to know that I can pick up another one soon if i want to.

I am now wasting my best years and it is affecting my mental health i think...

What actions would you recommend to achieve this state of being in shortest time? Lots of cold approaches?

I would also add that I am introverted so clubs arent ideal for starting i guess.