Any of you guys ever feel like you're out of your element in clubs

ozzagahwihung · 2017-02-26T09:01:15+00:00

Clubs are useless for picking up.

You can't talk, you can't see, you can't hear. How the hell do you know if you even find the person attractive?

Pointless.

You'll genuinely have a better chance of picking up in the fruit section of your local supermarket.

Bars are different though. At least there you can have a conversation.

DirtyProjector · 2017-02-26T07:09:24+00:00

I haven't done much pickup but I can tell you I couldn't imagine doing it at a club. It's exactly as you explain and it's impossible to build a connection. I need to talk to someone to build connection. I have zero interest in meeting someone in that context but I'm also not looking to just get laid.

921ninja · 2017-02-26T06:46:16+00:00

Just wanted to say I went to a club for the first time on Thursday and it felt like this. I've been doing tons of daygame for the past several months, but I went to the club and I just felt anxious in general.

karaknasa · 2017-02-26T07:17:17+00:00

I was once the same but if you stick at it it gets way easier. I went out everyday for a month to get over my jitters but now I can go out on my own whenever and I'll always know enough people to have a good time

JusKeepinItReal · 2017-02-26T15:50:04+00:00

Hmm im out of my element a bit id say.

I used to go to the club to try to meet girls and i have met a few. Nont of them are girls i necessarily like. But i find clubs much more enjoyable to go to with a group of friends just to drink listen to music and have fun.

When i go to a club i find it fun to see how many girls i can get to approach my friends.

Title	Any of you guys ever feel like you're out of your element in clubs
Author	seduction_reaction
Upvotes	6
Comments	10
Date	February 26, 2017 6:35 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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