Hey guys, I know that the saying "looks aren't all that important" is very common in the seduction community, but I'm still very conscious of how I look.

Now, I was born with a crooked nose, which makes my face pretty unsymmetrical. However, I have never been called ugly by anyone, not even when I was bullied in elementary school. I have been called fat, retarded, stupid or weird, but never ugly. In fact, there was a random girl that came up to me at a nightclub and made out with me after talking for 20 seconds. Despite those facts, I still feel like people are silently judging me for my looks.

I do have the possibility to get rhinoplasty done to my nose when I turn 21, but I really feel like the risks involved with that would outweigh the benefits. Also, I just know that I'm going to complain about something else after the rhinoplasty, like "my left eye is one millimeter higher than my right eye! My face is literally unsymmetrical!", so I feel like it might be better to just stop caring about my looks completely.

So, on to the meat of the question, how DO you stop caring about how you look? I have tried pretending to be a set of floating eyeballs without a body, but I still end up caring about my looks. So, how do you stop caring your looks?