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3 Ways Introverts Can Crush It In Bars and Clubs

IntrovertedBadass

March 7, 2017

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Title	3 Ways Introverts Can Crush It In Bars and Clubs
Author	IntrovertedBadass
Upvotes	185
Comments	40
Date	March 7, 2017 1:00 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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Hey, i can see the point you want to make. However that's the purpose of pre-selection. When women see you getting signs of attraction from other women, they will become attracted to you aswell. that's really the beauty of it. you don't need to be a brad pitt. And with every lap around the club you'll get more and more signs of attraction. start small. start by getting a reaction from a woman from a distance. just catch her eye, raise your glass. that's your first step. beleave me other women will have noticed that this woman raised her glass to you and you'll alreay be more attrative to those women. if you do this a few times, combined with some rounds around the club and short conversations with some women that aknowledged your nonverbal signs, you'll get more and more women noticing you and being attracted to you. Just try it. you'll see for yourself. hope this helps. cheers :)

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I see your point. Yes looks are important, but not nearly as much as you think. Attraction is mostly triggered by your body language. Therefore use confident body language by imagining you are the owner. That will get you attraction signs from women. Also when you force a reaction from a distance by for example raising your glass, many women will raise their glass back. And even if they are not attracted to you, it doesn’t matter for 2 reasons. First, other women will have seen that they react to you and that will trigger attraction in them. second if you were to go talk to the woman that raised her glass back, she won’t shoot you down because you already had a conversation from a distance. And again it doesn’t matter if she likes you or not. the fact that you got a warm welcome when you went up and talk to her will be noticed by other women and they will feel attraction for you. In fact the whole point of this approach is to make women attracted to you regardless of your looks. I sincerely hope this helps. Cheers :)

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