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Smiles, jokes, compliments... then what?

PteroStero · 2017-04-05T12:35:42+00:00

Hello, I am confused when it comes to women. So, I smile, I make them laugh, compliment them, but then what should I do? All seems perfectly as if it came out...

PteroStero

April 5, 2017

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Title	Smiles, jokes, compliments... then what?
Author	PteroStero
Upvotes	0
Comments	44
Date	April 5, 2017 12:35 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/63l8ue/smiles_jokes_compliments_then_what/
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I mean I've cold approached people I've seen at least once previously not just for the first time ever.

Most are taken with the amount of guys that hang out with girls at my school seems like I have to accept going for bad ones or nothing at all. Hell, a girl I talked to the other day lost interest so I moved on. The standards for our society has made picking up girls creepy so I guess wording it can make a difference. I have no idea where to find girls since I won't be at school this summer other than hanging around campus to gym and relax but other than that will be alone since I'm broke as a college student. I have taken advice and used it and I haven't had a date since I started with this sub 2 1/2 months ago. I'm not trolling, just frustrated when everyone else is getting something and I'm the only one who isn't.

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If you want to continue believing things that are factually not true, that's your problem. Your life will be worse for doing so. You're lying to yourself and us by saying you've taken and used the advice because you've talked to one girl and made several posts about it without doing anything else, and you continue to post the same bullshit falsehoods and excuses regardless of how often you are corrected.

I'm a broke college student too, and I literally don't have time to see all the girls that want to spend time with me. Stop making excuses for your failure to take responsibility.

Just frustrated when everyone else is getting something and I'm the only one who isn't

The difference between you and everyone else is we are doing something about it. You're the only person constantly posting nonsense and self-pity instead of doing anything at all. You will stay frustrated forever if you keep doing what you've been doing. Here you are still posting the same tired bullshit again and again rather than listening to the advice I am so generously giving you. You aren't getting what you want because you choose not to get it.

If you want to stay lonely and bored, keep doing fucking nothing at all and posting about how sad you are. If you want to join the rest of us on the journey of personal development, stop making bullshit excuses and take responsibility for your actions.

What makes me sad is the likelihood that you'll make some other untrue comment without taking any action at all and continue actively, intentionally choosing not to do any better for yourself.

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Alright now you're just being a dick. I'm sorry I wasted so much of my time trying to help you.

If you'd rather wallow in pathetic self-pity and loneliness, be my guest, but you have to understand that this is entirely your fault. You hate yourself because of your choices. You don't have women in your life because of your decisions and your purposeful, active ignorance.

If you want to bring people into your life, being a pathetic pile of self-pity online and being an ass to people who legitimately try to help you isn't going to get you results.

I've helped people in these subs get laid. I've helped people get dates. I've helped people get girlfriends. Obviously, you're unwilling to actually listen to advice, so I won't continue giving you suggestions.

Don't come back and waste our time in these subs unless you actually start caring about improvement.

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Any stupid simple joke works. Best ones are themed depending on the situation you are in cuz they are obvious. "I did smt stupid today that was time sensitive, i failed and it's too late now" type of joke, for example, calls for a simple solution. You task her to say or comment to a simple problem that could have numerous solutions. Let's say you are in a space ship and you are on your wayy to the moon, and all of the sudden you crack the darkness with a "WAIT! I think I forgot my stove on!". If you could throw in a pun in there that'll make it even better but those require preparations. Act accordingly from then on. If she laughs, you could keep adding your own funny solutions to the problem you gave till she pisses her pants. Let's say "oh, it's okay actually, i never really liked that house because of...reasons" type of answer. Also, telling a funny personal story related to the case works too. Make sure you smile in the process. Keep adding funny solutions till she smiles.