I've been into sales and reading about selling for a while now and I've seen a prominent connection between selling and seduction.

Seduction, as defined in Models, is the process in which a man induces a woman to become as invested in him as he is in her. From one perspective, Seduction is a lot like selling yourself. When selling a product, you need to (among a lot other stuff, of course):

  • Firmly believe in your product
  • Be enthusiastic in your approach
  • Be confident

The Product

You are the product, of course. Are you aware of your value? What are you doing to increase your value in the market? (dating jungle out there). Do you believe in yourself? Are you confident as a result of your own features?

Inner game is equivalent to your value proposition. There must be value in you that people out there want. Are you becoming the product of your own hobbies, work, dreams and social circles? What are you waiting for?

Of course not everyone loves and buys Apple, for example, but a shit ton of people do. You don't even need to be the Apple of the dating marketplace. You need to have your own value and know it. Market yourself and you'll sell.

Communication

You can be the "best product" of the Dating Market, and yet, if you don't communicate your intentions properly, women won't get to know you, they won't get attracted to you, and they won't have sex with you.

So communication plays a big role here. Learn how to be charming. Learn to talk with enthusiasm. Talk to people. Be involved in talking to audiences. Teach, or take public speaking courses. It'll help you a lot.

Golden Rule

Now, the basic principle here, as explained by Mr. Carnegie: "there is only one way under heaven to get anybody to do anything [...] and that is by making the other person want to do it".

You can't (shouldn't) force sex, a relationship, attraction. It has to be built. The other person has to want to buy you.

But it's also important to understand what the other person finds attractive. And see if you are genuinely compatible in that sense.

Make them want you. As RSD Luke names it: the Fear Of Missing Out. Make them be afraid of not being around such an awesome person as yourself.

Quick FR Here

I pulled a gorgeous, smoking hot girl (literally the hottest of the club) about a year ago. She was having a terrible day as her brother had left the country for a couple of years. I found out that her brother was her role model: he had studied abroad in prominent Universities and had a successful career.

On my end, I had worked on my own value proposition for some time: I graduated from a prestigious foreign University with a scholarship as well, and worked for a multinational company, earned good money and traveled quite a lot. So I exploited this. And it worked wonderfully. Her knees became weak. She literally told me she was attracted to me. I wasn't bragging, I was sharing my experience and being emphatic with her.

Understand the following: it wouldn't had mattered if I used the most wonderful kino techniques in the world, or best push-pull methods, or even shared about my childhood. They were just tools, amplifiers, expressions of my own confidence. What mattered the most was that I understood what she was looking for in a man, and honestly shared with her my own point of view. She came back to my place that night and we had amazing sex.

Cheers