There's a lot of specifics on this sub about specific lines, moves and techniques to get girls. I've been lucky enough to find this sub and learn from it and I want to share what I feel everyone should take away from what they read.

The best thing you can learn from this sub is the world view you should take on. All of the successful one liners and techniques fall from having a good mindset about women and once you attain the right world view, you will be able to create your own way of conversing with women.

The best way to explain the mindset is to explain my journey from prude highschooler to a confident and secure man. A few years ago I was a virgin, I thought I might never have sex. Yesterday, I broke it off with a beautiful girl that I had been seeing for a couple months and she told me that I was one of the best things to ever happen to her.

There is greatness inside everyone and you only need to understand a few things about yourself and women to get there.

  1. You are good enough. You have value. You matter. If you can't understand that, if you can't make that a fundamental fact of life you need to make some changes. Do what you want to to do. If someone doesn't think you're good enough, they are jealous or not worth your time.

  2. More than anything, girls want someone normal. Have you ever been reading on this sub and think you have it all figured out, and then you get to the club and there are a million other guys trying to do the same thing as you. All you have to do to beat these guys is talk to girls and be normal. Stop thinking so hard about what to say and just feel it. Imagine you're talking to an old man or woman. There is no judgement, just get to know them and have a good time.

  3. Girls want to have fun. Go out to have fun. If you're having fun your mood will be better, you will be naturally better at talking to women. Girls are attracted to fun guys.

  4. You are first priority. Your wants, likes and needs come first as long as they do not harm others. Forget what the girl likes, what do you like. Tell her, show her something new. Stop pleasing women to attract them. Please yourself and the right women will stick around.

I'm no pickup artist, I am just a guy who knows himself. Be normal, be fun, and know you're worth it.