Everyone knows the classic trope, him: "what do you want for dinner honey?", her: "I don't know".

This is one of the most fundamental things you need to understand about women:

Women are indecisive.

Basically every girl I've ever met has uttered the words "I don't know, I'm indecisive" to me.

To get anywhere with women, you need to know how do decide things for her. When people here say "as a man you need to lead" this is primarily what it is referring to.

You cannot ask women where they want to go, what they want to do, what time, etc.

You must make the decision and give them the option to say no.

Basically all "decision points" between you and a woman should come down to "this is my choice, if she says no, I have other options."

Basic example: - You meet a woman for the first time. Decision point = Is she interested in you or not. You don't ask her "Hey I'd love to keep talking to you. How can I contact you?" You just ask for her phone number and she has the option to say yes or no. If she says no, cool you have other options, move on. - You want to ask a girl on a date. Decision point = What, where, when. You don't ask her "Do you want to go on a date? Where do you want to go? When are you free?" You ask her "let's do this at this time on this day" and she has the option to say yes or no, and she has the ability to say yes provide alternative days/times; if she just says no, you have other options ready.

It's amazing how much easier and less frustrating it is for everyone when as a man you act: - with precision - on a specific time frame - with a Yes or No outcome mindset - with other options available

This is Leading.