An abundance mindset is the idea that men should never become overly attached to one woman in particular because there are millions of them on the planet who they are compatible with that are equally as good or better to the woman they are dating.

One misconception is that in order for men to develop abundance, they should date multiple women non exclusively. While this is a good way to go about developing an abundance mindset, it still won't necessarily guarantee that you have it.

For example, let's imagine that you are dating 10 women non exclusively, and the girl you liked the most on the roster decides to stop seeing you. It is still entirely possible for you to be devastated after she leaves (for whatever reasons) despite having 9 other women that you're dating.

This happened to me many years ago, as there was one girl in particular I liked that I was struggling to get over despite dating five other women at the same time.

So, just dating multiple women at the time does not necessarily give you an abundance mindset. You could have zero women on your roster and have an abundance mindset, and you could have 9 women you are dating non exclusively and not have abundance.

An abundance mindset is developed by internalizing the idea that no matter what happens with any woman you are dating, that you will be able to attract one of equal or higher quality. This can be ensured by your continuous self improvement and development.

I know what my value is because of how hard I worked to get to where I am, and I know what my future value will be because of how hard I'm going to continue to work. Thus, no matter what happens I can always attract a woman of equal or higher quality woman than the one I'm currently with.

I still think dating multiple women non exclusive is important. because it is a good way to internalize that it is very easy for high quality women to enter your life after one exits. Dating multiple women simultaneously allows men to realize that they often idealized women that they were once particularly interested in, and that something better is always around the corner.

I made this one shorter, so if you want a more detailed analysis of how you can develop abundance and why men should date multiple women non exclusively, read this: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/why-men-should-date-multiple-women?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web

TL;DR Dating multiple women simultaneously is not how you develop an abundance mindset

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