🥶 approach

Just_bad_with_names · 2024-01-28T11:36:05+00:00

damn that's cold bro

GraniteNut · 2024-01-28T11:24:46+00:00

Nice. Keep it up bud

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-01-28T12:09:33+00:00

That terrified feeling that you feel manifests from deep internal insecurity as if you think approaching and flirting isn't even a normal thing ..like it's some huge hurdle or challenge to overcome instead of a fun way to meet someone.

The mating process is hardwired into us, it's as natural as drinking eating or shitting. Therefore; it should be as normal and as easy as eating drinking and shitting.

Remove the label of cold approach. Just talk to the hottest woman you see anywhere you happen to be...just have normal conversations with no motive, then sprinkle in flirting as u become more at ease. This is the only way to realize how easy it actually is and quell ur nerves.

letsgetwizzyy · 2024-01-28T13:14:36+00:00

Good job. That's normal. The tremors will go away with experience. I also bet the feeling you got after your approached the women was amazing, right? There is quite literally no better feeling than the feeling of adrenaline that surges in you after approaching a woman you are attracted to. The amount of time it takes for the approach anxiety to dissipate is dependent on specific individual characteristics and life circumstances. Also, it will never fully go away (most likely) but it will decrease so much after so many repetitions that you will no longer have nerves that affect your game. It took me about 10 approaches for my anxiety to dissipate, and this is because I looked at it from the frame of conquering my fears and understanding my value and understood that i'm a catch.

Keep doing it, you're developing a skill that will put you far above the average man.

As far as keeping your nerves cool and stopping tremoring, what you can do is do controlled breathing before your approach to control yourselfers. You can't really calm yourself down by talking to yourself in your head, but you can actually control your body with breathing in a controlled manner to lower your heartrate (science proves this)

This goes into detail about how to get over your fear of approaching women: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-conquer-your-fear-of-approaching?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web

Ok-Maybe-541 · 2024-01-28T13:08:40+00:00

Thank you all guys

AceOfSpadesGymBro5 · 2024-01-28T16:08:28+00:00

Should get that look at by a doctor.

Title	🥶 approach
Author	Ok-Maybe-541
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	January 28, 2024 8:05 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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