Do girls treat you as their equal?

DaygameCode · 2023-09-10T20:37:53+00:00

My goal in life is to "win" one of these "better" girls over and prove my worth to her.

Wrong goal to have and quite counterproductive. As long as you have that goal it will pretty much be impossible to accomplish it.

DarkDirtReboot · 2023-09-10T23:33:53+00:00

dude thats just you

ive never been laughed at or ridiculed, and i feel for you that you had to go through that

but i am a real proper human being who brings value to mine and other people's lives

i just joined the sub to see how to streamline the process of meeting women

you dont need to be dating, no one wants to hear this but you need to be someone who you would want to date. you have terrible self-esteem issues, AND STILL there are girls who want to be with you. instead of thinking "yeah im the man" you are saying "what is wrong with these people?"

try volunteering, itll help give you perspective and you can help make a positive change in your community

seducedyourmom · 2023-09-10T20:38:36+00:00

Why is this sub equated now with guys that can’t get girls? I thought we would be discussing seduction as an art form rather than trying to figure out how to get girls starting at square 0.

To respond properly to you, this is all mindset. There isn’t anything to prove. No girl is above any of us. Naturally we are all equal, people will only treat you as less if you show them that you also believe yourself to be less.

eablokker · 2023-09-10T20:36:47+00:00

Sounds like some kind of dom fetish. Perhaps you were mistreated in childhood and believe that’s what you deserve. You’ll never change that by winning over a high quality girl, because as soon as you win her over you will think that you don’t deserve it and she’s no longer the unattainable high quality girl anymore so you will lose interest. The only way to change that is from the inside through therapy.

gangweedsavedme · 2023-09-10T20:24:49+00:00

U have self esteem issues. Get a puppy. Edit: I’m serious, taking car for something other than yourself will make you feel a lot better about yourself.

easyporn69 · 2023-09-10T20:48:21+00:00

They threat me as their superior. Because I am.

FlynnRideHer1 · 2023-09-10T20:11:26+00:00

They only treat chads as equal. They will literally sacrifice their kids to be with chad

xotakes · 2023-09-10T20:17:39+00:00

Read the book no more mr. Nice guy (im currently reading it)

V-is-for-Vegetables · 2023-09-11T03:53:23+00:00

You have no enemy

Dandys3107 · 2023-09-11T09:05:33+00:00

I would say that most women are strictly connected with society's order of things. But once she gets close to you, she is kinda "soaking" with your values and views. It seems like contradicting duality, but it appears like women hunt for these extraordinary genes but they still need to maintain their social mask to swim smoothly in societical structures.

Devout_Alpha5 · 2023-09-11T16:06:08+00:00

You are treated as an equal or superior if you bring value equal or superior to them, plus have the confidence to consider yourself as a superior person and worthy of respect with boundaries.

To become valuable, To bring value, To be confident, To be self-assured, To be worthy of respect,

You need to have a mission, a goal that you strive towards, and it brings value to yourself.

My goal in life is to "win" one of these "better" girls over and prove my worth to her.

Unfortunately, this isn't a goal that will bring you respect or value. To seek validation is to admit you're inferior.

Build yourself to be the person others seek validation from. Be a social, confident, charismatic person that others want to be around.

Title	Do girls treat you as their equal?
Author	Yellow_Squeezer
Upvotes	1
Comments	19
Date	September 10, 2023 7:50 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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