Where do you guys went?

with_more_feeling · 2017-06-21T14:32:24+00:00

Cold approach day game: hardmode

No booze or terribly lit bars to hide behind.

Also helps develop mad balls.

Always saw the hottest girls just out and about... Single reason why I started pickup.

luaudesign · 2017-06-21T13:05:33+00:00

have being single for 3 year, to focus on my life.

Are you me? Also, that's why I find all "focus on yourself, be happy by yourself" advices to be pure BS in my ears. I've been doing that for 3 years. I was happy and fine and not even interested in women or the trouble it is to have to be available to them when I rather be working and studying and not giving a fuck. But the time for that shit is over now.

But the fact is: I don't drink and I really, really, don't enjoy clubs.

Then do like me, I mostly just daygame. I only went out at night once in 3 months, no friends just myself, yet I made out with the first girl I approached that night, but it's not the only way to get women. Also, daygame boosts confidence you can spend on nightgame or anywhere else aswell. There's plenty of women everywhere, day and night, begin approaching and you'll quickly improve.

BlazeDate · 2017-06-21T12:03:16+00:00

Go to the places with things you like to do. Join a social club with those activities. Talk to people at those outdoor activities. There were be people there in similar walks of life to meet. Pay attention to those that are open to talking.

Snooze212 · 2017-06-21T18:07:19+00:00

Daygame big man. That is essentially the key to dating when out of College.

UndidIridium · 2017-06-21T18:08:54+00:00

You can meet women while on your "outside activities and cultural ones." See someone that catches your eye? Approach, say "hi," and go from there. You'll be out doing what you like and instantly have something in common to talk about for starters.

Good on you for focusing on your life. Treat this "dating life restart" just like another side/personal project, that doesn't really hold a high priority, and allot time/energy for it just as such. Do not become an approach robot. Goes without saying that you have full control over how much time/energy/etc. to adjust here, should you come across a woman you click with, and wish to invest in.

Most importantly, irrespective of the outcomes of this endeavor, NEVER lose track on focusing on you.

ThrowawayPUA · 2017-06-21T20:45:48+00:00

/r/world

fluffy-gorilla · 2017-06-21T21:22:42+00:00

Honestly try Tinder. I find there are three types of women on there. The girls that want to hook-up, the girls that only have the app because their friend made it for them (this is a transitional stage), and the girls that hate going out but want to find someone to date.

Title	Where do you guys went?
Author	Mecuna
Upvotes	1
Comments	12
Date	June 21, 2017 12:00 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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