This is a golden opportunity for you – no matter what your level of game.

I’ve seen a few people on this sub in the past concerned about going out to game alone. I’ve also seen others who advertise that they are looking for those in a particular area to game with. There’s nothing inherently wrong with this. However, this can potentially slow down your personal development a bit. Here’s why:

When you go out alone, you must rely on every mental faculty in your possession to not only survive, but to thrive in a highly socialized environment. Whether this is a house party, bar, club, or something as simple as a busy city plaza in the middle of the day, you need to be on your toes. This is a valuable skillset to possess in and of itself, and it will take you farther into the world as a well-rounded human being. This is about being a confident and self-assured man.

On the flip-side, when you are out with friends or acquaintances, they serve as a “safety net” of sorts. That is to say, imagine a situation where you bomb three sets in a row. Naturally, this is a bit of a gut-check for you. You might feel drawn to go talk about it with your friends for a bit and vent. While this is happening, there could be a girl (or two, or several) who is/are standing at the bar by themselves who you didn’t even notice; you were so caught up in venting these negative experiences out, they flew right by your radar.

With that being said, i’ll play devil’s advocate briefly and state that there are instances where having friends to game with can be beneficial to some extent. If they are versed in game, you can work together to open sets of girls easier, and feed off of each other’s positive energies – call it a symbiotic relationship (I’ll be writing more about this in another post at some point).

There’s two sides to every coin.

The point here is the social skill-set you can develop on your own, versus being with friends, has the potential to be far more valuable for your long-term success and growth as an individual. There’s something to be said about being self-sufficient and having the ability to create your own positive environment virtually out of thin-air. Not having friends around forces you to go up and socialize with everyone around you, even after a series of bad rejections. Doing this will give you a crash course into socially calibrating yourself to the surroundings. Think of it as social darwinism – only the fittest will survive the night. The loser stands in the corner of the room with a cup held against his chest; balls shrunken to the size of peanuts, staring blankly at a nearby TV screen. The winner is grinding with the hottie-with-a-body.

Tips:

  • If you're at a night venue (bar, club setup) chat up the bartender (assuming they're not busy). They usually are pretty cool people, and can get your mindset back into-state.

  • If you're gaming in daytime and are experiencing a series of rejections/bad sets, don't be afraid to take breaks every now and then. Go to a nearby store and grab a drink/snack, something to bring you closer back to your baseline state of happiness.

  • Learn to be social with everyone (groups of guys, a group of unattractive girls, bartenders, security/bouncers, the gas station store clerk, etc.) This is about building a positive social environment around yourself, which will inevitably attract others (people tend to float around others having a good time)

  • Abundance, abundance, abundance. For every girl that rejects you and thinks your ugly as sin, or a creepy asshole, there's going to be another girl who thinks your sexy "af", and wants to fuck your brains out. The longer you spend cycling through the last shitty interaction you had with a girl, the more likely you are to completely miss the one girl who would've loved to ride your cock like a horse. It can happen in a blink of an eye, if you aren't paying attention.

So next time your friend texts you with: “Sorry bruh can’t make it tonight.”, you can respond with “All good, G”

When opportunity knocks, don’t just answer the door, slam the door into its face and run screaming out of your house fully naked in a positively-charged-man-rage of awesomeness.