How do I deal with my sexual racism?

SigmaCronos · 2017-10-01T09:03:16+00:00

Firstly, I wouldn't call that racism; it's a preference and it's a perfectly normal to have.

If you're trying to get a girlfriend, yeah i'd say you're in a suboptimal place. However, if you're out to hone your game, you can try to look at this scenario as a plus: you've got a pool of women that you can game with a truly outcome-independent mindset.

Not_unique_enuf · 2017-10-01T12:04:04+00:00

It's preference. I wouldn't date a black chick ever but that doesn't mean I hate black people. Come on guy

2017-10-01T10:30:51+00:00

I find Kazakh girls pretty hot. Just get on tinder and look for Moscow girls

paladin400 · 2017-10-01T17:23:03+00:00

God no! Fuck that race crap. It's your dick and your life. Just because someone belongs to your race doesn't mean there is a law out there that says you are supposed to be physically attracted to them.

I'm Peruvian and I've never dated a single peruvian girl in my life, cause I consider them ugly as fuck. I've only dated foreigners, and I continue to do so with no shame whatsoever. You do you man, and the people you want

sweetmagwheels · 2017-10-01T12:51:29+00:00

Thats not racism, thats just your preference. And you cant/shouldnt have to try and change it, its just like how some people like the taste of apples and some dont. A plus however is that you can use your none physical attraction for these women to really train on your game, since rejection shouldnt be a problem :)

On the other hand, physical attraction isnt everything. Sure it plays a big part but personality can (at least for me) be more of a deal or dealbreaker than looks.

2017-10-01T13:44:49+00:00

First off that's not racism. Its a great example of biology, and an even better example of how the word 'racism' has been twisted and distorted into meaning anything that offends certain loud minorities.

As for actual, practical advice, for many people in this situation as they find themselves immersed among such people, they find the situation resolves itself. Attraction is rarely just physical, as you meet native women who would otherwise 'fit the bill', you might be surprised to find yourself developing a few 'crushes'. Just live life and don't over think it.

mcr00sterdota · 2017-10-01T11:52:13+00:00

It's just a preference. I like Asian chicks and am not ashamed of it.

haksli · 2017-10-01T12:08:54+00:00

I am the same. I am not very attracted to the girls who belong to the majority. Except I am in a more difficult situation. My ethnicity is a minority in my country. There are about 0.7% of us here (0.7% from the total population of my country).

The girls are good looking, but I just can't see myself with them. There's something about them, I am not sure what. So I am still trying to find a girl of my ethnicity. It's very difficult, but I am not giving up.

I told this to my friends (who both have girlfriends who belong to the majority). One of them felt offended. The other one kinda understood, and his girlfriend told me to not be a nationalist. I just responded that it's my preference.

LUClEN · 2017-10-01T13:09:24+00:00

Is it possible to change your taste for women

We can change tastes in anything. More importantly, there's a lot of diversity within groups. You're bound to find someone who's a member of x group who meets your fancy, you just have to put in the work to find them.

Alleycat0 · 2017-10-01T19:33:55+00:00

Women tend to care a lot more about race than men. So maybe thats your real problem regarding 95% has a different ethnicity

Lambdal7 · 2017-10-01T09:31:40+00:00

Switch university, not a big deal and it's worth it if you otherwise womt have decent college life.

Title	How do I deal with my sexual racism?
Author	Dima_de_Trebizond
Upvotes	5
Comments	17
Date	October 1, 2017 7:34 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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