Why would a 4 reject a 8-9?

Samsara19 · 2017-10-02T23:12:11+00:00

"I think you should come with me to the toilets"

If you aren't trollling, this was a horrible idea especially with coworkers around. You should have asked her to come to your place. Left ten minutes apart. Kept things hush hush (as well as you could after she cock teased you around everyone).

To answer your question: 1. She wanted attention/was in the mood to flirt nothing more. 2. If there really was a huge gap in attractiveness, she was intimidated when it went from words to actions. 3. What you said made her feel like a slut, never do that.

Insomniac_108 · 2017-10-02T23:07:57+00:00

Really dude, you don't understand what went wrong? You asked a shy girl to go to the bathroom to fuck. You have to save that shit for the dirty freaks, not the quiet types. If you had offered to go back to your place or hers, it would have been a go but you pitched the wrong idea to the wrong audience and now you're going to be known around work as the guy who wanted to fuck in a bathroom.

TLDR: Know your audience

Turlast · 2017-10-02T23:23:10+00:00

Because that's not how life works. Just because you're higher on the attractive scale doesn't automatically mean you'll be the lesser's cup of tea for that reason alone.

Asking her that was random as fuck.

MarTweFah · 2017-10-03T12:43:28+00:00

She could be a 1 and if she's not a ho, she'd still say no.

AsdGoober1994 · 2017-10-02T23:05:03+00:00

Just like to add that it was an emphatic no and she seemed to get a lot of enjoyment out of it

luaudesign · 2017-10-03T12:47:46+00:00

Women like privacy. You prompted massive ASD by going "let's bang in a nasty place" in front of her colleagues.

Ask her out in secret, only the two of you, don't mention or let anyone else know about it. Maybe tell her you've been into her for a while, that she has a great personality you really enjoy, and that you wanted to go fast to make up for being slow before, and that it came out horribly wrong. Be sincere, and be relatable, and she'll understand your mistake. Make sure she knows you want to keep it all secret.

If you're saying you're out of her league, then you need to be relatable. Show her you're human, and that you make mistakes, and that you regret them, and that you value her.

Title	Why would a 4 reject a 8-9?
Author	AsdGoober1994
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	October 2, 2017 11:03 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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