Fairly quiet night, but

At the bar. I'm trying to get served and notice in the mirror behind the bar that there is a hot girl behind me. As I'm contemplating how to open her, she brushed my back with her phone that she is using to text. I decide to use that as my 'in' and spin around and say ''You just stabbed me in the back with your phone on purpose!'' with a suspicious smile. She is laughs and says ''lol, did I?! I wondered why you span around. I didn't mean too''. I say ''Yes you did! I've met girls like you before. You just go around poking men in the back with your phone. It's what you do. Nobody knows why'' (I'm just talking complete shit here. I guess RSD would call it self amusing which 'builds attraction')

She laughs. I'm about to ask her what she's up to but i'm not sure if that would be a mistake based on some input in a previous FR breakdown (rapport questions too soon after opening) but in the moment I'm now not sure what best to carry on with, plus the barman is now tapping me on my back and wants his money for the round of beers, plus the bar is getting busy and i'm in the way and it's my first approach of the night and the girls want to get served. I pay the barman and tell the girl ''be careful with that thing!'(her phone) and she laughs as I walk away. It's still early.

In a different bar and as i'm walking back from the bathroom, one of my friends says to me ''There's 3 gorgeous girls and an older one! The older one and one of the hot ones has gone outside for a smoke. We're gonna go and have a smoke and open them. You open the 2 hot ones sitting down and we'll all join up together in a few minutes!'' He's talking to me like he's planning an oceans 11 heist or something.

I say 'ok' and walk back into the bar and there are 2 gorgeous girls sitting down. I open them and ask whether I look like a drug dealer. One of teh hotties plays along and starts pretending she wants drugs from me. I pull her close and start talking like a druggie, telling her I can take her to the moon and back. She's laughing. We've been riffing long enough that I figure i'm now allowed to ask her a 'normal' question? I dunno. I do anyway, and we talk a little about what we are up too tonight. Soon after, the older one and the other hottie come back from their smoke and sit down with the other 2 that i'm talking too. My friends are all being weak and now it's basically just me and the 4 girls. It turns out that the older one is the mother! We are all talking and chatting. At some point I kind of run out of conversation and I think I declare (to the mother) that I like ''daughter A'' almost just to fill in the gap.

Pretty sure that was a giant fuck up, but I kind of done it out of fear of having nothing to say. She tells me that I have no chance as daughter A likes tall, handsome, muscly tattoo'd guys. Not me! I laugh it off and tell her I can change and do steroids and get leg lengthening surgery. The mother briefly declares my love for daughter A to the girl herself who kindly confirms her mothers thoughts and kindly rejects me.

I'm now mainly talking to the mother and 'daughter B' who is also gorgeous, and who (maybe i'm wrong) seemed to be giving a few IOI's. Certainly much more engaged than daughter A. But I just feel weird about trying to make a move on her when she saw me basically get rejected by daughter A. (DLV) - My friends are getting bored watching me and want to leave. I don't think i've got a shot with any of these and I decide to join them and move along

I go to a different bar and I spot an attractive black girl. Not super hot or even my type particularly, but she is attractive. I open her and say ''Hey! Do you like white boys?!'' She laughs and says ''maybe''. I say ''Good! I'm pretty white. I'm good with computers. I can't jump very high. I Burn in the sun''. I'm saying all of this with lots of kino as i'm talking into her ear. She's cracking up laughing and is comfortable with my touch. I assume I have attraction here. Memory is slightly hazy to be honest, but I think that I should have gone more into comfort here and asked her about herself and stuff (since I have attraction from her, and have showed my own intent through my touch and my open) but I think I carried on trying to ramp up the attraction and was talking nonsense and being a flirt instead. I could possibly have kissed her at some point but restrained myself. In the old days I'd have not kissed her out of fear But I don't really have that fear any more. I just go for it. However, I chose not to kiss her in order to 'make her chase a bit and invest

However, the whole time I could sense some resistance and she was shit testing me a fair bit and I wondered whether i'd read her attraction wrong. At one point I kind of gave up and assumed maybe she wasn't that into me and as I was on my way to the bathroom, one of her friends grabbed my arm and said something like ''My friend really likes you! She's never like this''. I told her ''Nahh...she hates me!'' She was like ''No No! try again!'' lol I went to the bathroom, came back, and my brother was talking to her now (not trying to pull her. Just talking as i'd introduced him to her earlier) I come back but she is still a little frosty towards me. My brother tells me that she likes me but thinks i'm a ''fuck boy''. I talk to the girl a little more. It's not really happening. I try suggest going somewhere just to confirm whether there's interest. She doesn't really seem up for it. It's getting late. I've drank more than I intended too, and I decide to throw the towel in.

I make a few short direct approaches as hail mary shots before I leave the bar, but no joy.

It might seem boring, but after last weekend (the 20 harsh, instant rejections in a rown night! :)) It kind of felt like success.