Women Take Texts At Face Value [Video]

Hector_Castillo · 2017-11-19T02:37:53+00:00

When you text someone, you expect them not to be too caught up in the specifics of your texts (spelling, emojis, etc), but focus more about the person who is doing the texting - you.

I mean, she's met you, right? You've talked and she had a great time!

Unfortunately, this is not the case. The context between you two, your history of in-person interactions, DOES play a factor, but more important is what she's on her screen in front of her RIGHT NOW. If that texting is cool and fun, she'll think, "Yeah, he's a cool guy," especially if you were cool in person (and if you weren't, sometimes good texting can save you). If your texting is off in some way, or weird, especially if you try too hard to tease her or make a lame joke, she will think YOU'RE weird, even if you were great in person. If you were bad in person, too, well, you're donezo.

This entire video is an advocacy for learning texting, but also explores the underlying reason for this necessity - women take texts at face value.

Video Highlights

00:30 – Lemme esplain what I’m talking about

2:00 – Stupid ass text from an anecdote of mine to illustrate how texts can be weird when you assume context

3:00 – Your audience is the final judge when it comes to results

4:30 – Why context is important, even more so than her initial affection for you

5:00 – People see what’s in front of them

5:30 – She can like you one minute and then not like you another. One text can end it all.

6:00 – Think of texting as a box, its own universe

7:00 – You can be great in person, but if you suck over text, her opinion of you WILL change

8:00 – If something is confusing or weird, women will avoid it. Avoid friction.

9:00 – This doesn’t mean that having a great in-person interaction doesn’t help; it CAN act as a buffer if your texting is sub-par

10:00 – If you text well, you can make her remember how great your meeting was

11:00 – Women are amazing at living in the present, thus their interpretation of you is heavily influenced by what you’re doing now. Precedent is good, but your present behavior is more important

11:40 – Words are hard

12:00 – Texting is its own skillset. LEARN. IT.

13:00 - It's dark as hell in here

fightthewower · 2017-11-24T03:01:08+00:00

Hey Hector! I was wondering if I could pay you for your help on a texting situation I'm having right now. I feel like if I understand where I went wrong I can fix a big part of my game and be where I want to be. If you'd be down for this please let me know, thanks!

Title	Women Take Texts At Face Value [Video]
Author	Hector_Castillo
Upvotes	16
Comments	8
Date	November 19, 2017 2:37 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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