What are your top tips to become more likeable?

Lambdal7 · 2017-12-01T19:26:13+00:00

A few

Be normal
Be relatable
Be friendly
Build rapport
Make her/him laugh
Give value
Show some leadership without coming across as a douche
Be interesting
Be confident
Be playful
Allow space for the other person to invest

Then a few more, but those can backfire quickly so they require some practice

Have standards
Have "frame"

Then a few don'ts

Don't try to be too [insert any of the above points]
Don't be negative
Don't be a pushover
Don't be too sexual initially if at all

ACaulfield910 · 2017-12-02T00:25:32+00:00

Aside from the obvious (back straight, shoulders back, neck in line with your bag, eye contact, all that stuff), I think it comes down to this: just be genuine. Express yourself genuinely and honestly. Don't say something to impress someone, just say it because you mean it or believe it it, but don't antagonize anyone. Even if you disagree with someone, agree to disagree. If you fuck you, admit you're wrong. Smile (unless you're upset, obviously. Another thing you need to do is to make your emotions clear, don't mask yourself). You'd be surprised how such little things to a long way in charisma.

brianbria · 2017-12-01T21:42:01+00:00

Bad question tbh.

You don't want to try to be more likeable. That's called people pleasing and it's unattractive.

Title	What are your top tips to become more likeable?
Author	gtrman571
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Date	December 1, 2017 7:17 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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