So since I left the barren deserts of Inceldom, my main way of finding dates has been online. Obviously there's a lot of quantity online, but there's a noticeable decline in the quality of profiles you see, and unless you're a top 20% guy in terms of muscle and looks (which I'm not) you have to play a numbers game. Also, I'm tired of hookups and I want to find something more fulfilling. It's kind of frustrating to craft really detailed personalised messages only to get 'so what do you do?' when my (pretty unique) job is in my profile. Therefore, how do I transfer to offline game? I go to gigs regularly but I always feel as if if I go up to a chick, I'm annoying her. I'd love to hear your suggestions on how to break out of this loop. Thanks!