I don't know what's wrong with me

jwzbengeen11 · 2017-12-26T12:25:48+00:00

and she's way out of my league

This is a very bad thing to believe. She is not out of your fucking league dude. Almost no one is. I see ugly dudes with hot girls and ugly girls with handsome dudes all the time. Ofcourse the looks will be important for the first couple interactions but once she seems interested then the whole 'league' system you made up in your own head doesn't mean anything.

Ask her to hang out again, dont get clingy, think regularly about stuff you can feel confident about (achievements or things you're good at, just think about it and feel confident about it), and dont give a lot of fucks.

I've heard some people say: the more fucks you give the less you get, the less fucks you give the more you get.

champlu · 2017-12-26T11:19:02+00:00

Follow up and be genuine. If you enjoyed hanging out with her, let her know and ask her to hang out again.

ack567 · 2017-12-26T14:49:41+00:00

Don't overthink it. When people say not to give any fucks, they just mean to stop worrying about that stupid little voice in your head that tells you you're unworthy. Want to hold her hand? Ask or take her hand. Want to kiss her but unsure how to initiate it? Just simply ask her. Remember she's a person too, and is likely just as nervous as you are (if not more).

MattED1220 · 2017-12-26T16:17:39+00:00

I think you need start from square one. When you want to start going to gym you dont start with The Rock's routine, you start small. You start with light weights. What you should do is just get comfortable just smiling and waving at people. Then when good with that just say "Hey, how are you." its awkward but who cares. Then you starting having conversation with people.

It helps with you have a goal and some stakes involved. If you don't you won't take risks because nothing will happen if you don't

Just remember, girls are people too. As much as we need girls, they need guys. Hope this helps.

Title	I don't know what's wrong with me
Author	huntwatts
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	December 26, 2017 9:13 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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