47M and am working on my OKC/Match game. Tinder gets me nothing but ghosts. In general, I think it is fair to say that my personality and/or intellect are going to get me further with women than my looks. Might explain my higher success rate with long form / semi long form platforms as opposed to the twitter level concentration experience of tinder.

Anyways, as far as I can tell, 75% of women put the same dumb ass shit in their profile; 'love to laugh', 'loves to travel', 'No hookups', whatever. Plus pictures of them in a car, sometimes a snapchat filter or something, them at a football game.

That being said, with 75% of the profiles, it is kind of difficult to comment about something other than their pictures / how they look. But I'm getting that these girls are inundated with this kind of shit from every dude out there, online and in real life. But they didn't go to any damn trouble to tell me something meaningful about themselves, so it is something of a catch-22. Comment on their (relative) hotness and get lost in the ocean of compliments, or tell them 'I also love to laugh'.

Sedditors who have navigated this landscape successfully, give me some advice. Thanks.