Hey guys, I’m a 25 M and I have a problem with getting physical. I’ve made out with a few girls in the past, had sex like once, so I’m not completely without experience. But I recently got out of a bad period in my life, in which I’ve gone through a 3 year dry spell.

I spent the last few months going to gym (lost 40 lbs!), getting myself on track to graduate this semester, becoming more financially stable, and working on my inner game through self-help books.

It’s gotten me somewhere, I’ve gotten a few numbers, even a few hangouts but I’m so bad at knowing when to escalate physically. I keep trying to do kino, but i gotta push through a lot of anxiety for even just a touch on the thigh.

Guys I absolutely fucking hate this feeling. It wasn’t so bad when I was younger, but after spending the last 3 years locked up in my room, I’ve lost some social skills and gained some serious anxieties. I just want to be better, but idk what to do...