Ive been told that Im weird or unique a couple times now, and Im not sure what to make of it. When I embrace it I seem to develop a love/hate sort of friendship with a lot of people. I annoy people but ultimately people still like me. Its hard to explain. I keep things lighthearted enough that people almost never stay mad at me. I think sometimes im too goofy for girls. I get told im cute a lot and complimented but it seems to mostly be platonic. I think one of the issues is that people dont take me seriously most of the time. Perhaps im too easy going. Also a fair share of people have thought that im gay. On the one hand im trying to be more comfortable and confident with being myself, but im unsure if im too weird or something. It seems to have served me well in a general social comtext, but i dont think its done anything for me in terms of seduction. Im afraid its hindered it. But i dont know. Just looking for another perspective.